I Still Love My Ex: What Do I Do?

Are you still telling yourself "I still love my ex"? If so, then you need a plan to either get your ex back, or get over them. It's quite normal to feel strongly for someone even after the relationship is over. When you think of the past, even the bad times seem good now and you just want to get those times back. Those special feelings stay strong in the mind.

If you still have strong feelings for your ex then it means that your feelings were true. This can be a good sign, or not. You need to ask yourself right now if you are better off being separated. Was there anything about the relationship that was unhealthy? Was it a co-dependent relationship? This is a good opportunity to reflect on the relationship and determine if trying to get your ex back is a good idea.

You might find that the feelings you still have are just lingering emotions from the relationship that don't really hold any true meaning. If this is the case, then it is better to just move on.

On the other hand, if your reflection reveals that there are true feelings and that there is great opportunity for a healthy and productive relationship, then you will want to implement a plan to get your ex back.

The "secret" to getting your ex back is no real secret at all. The methods have been around for centuries and have worked successfully. Most of us fail at rekindling failed relationships because we make stupid mistakes as a result of our depression and panic.

The first step to getting back together with your ex is to remain cool and just let things flow. For most situations this is the proper way to begin. Even if there is a danger that your ex is getting together with someone else. There is still time. Their new relationship is "new" so it’s weak and unstable. You already have a foundation.

This is where most mistakes are made. People depressed from a breakup do very irrational things that often come across as "extreme" or "crazy". The key is to just relax. If you don’t have a clear head, then you won’t be able to plan well for getting your ex back.

After you do this, take the next step to get your ex back.