How Women Test Men

Guys, let me tell you something before I get to the focus of this article. If you thought that you are oozing with social and emotional intelligence just because you dated exactly those girls you wanted, sorry, you have a misconception. Even if those girls seemed to be dumb according to you, girls will be GIRLS! However intelligent you are, women will always have an upper hand when it comes to social intelligence and delicate matters of the heart. This social intelligence and overall 'thinking with the heart' quality is totally used by women while dating! Men don't even remotely realize that sometimes when the woman they love is doing something which is not 'her', she is just testing him! So here is something for the boys!

Why Women Test Men?

Guys, brace yourselves as these are things which beyond such articles, no girl is going to mention about. Yes, the reasons as to why do women test men are going to be discussed here. The first and foremost reason for women throwing those obscure and unexpected googlies to guys is that they want to see what you really are. Further women also want to get an idea about how emotionally strong the guy is or are you a pushover. What do women look for in a man? A woman needs reassurance all the time that the man she loves is there for her and is strong enough. Another thing a woman wants to know is whether her 'man' is 'man' enough to commit. Eventually these testing times are created by a woman to see if the guy can be trusted.

You see then how a woman's mind works? Now it's time to see how exactly do women test their men and throw these surprises and how you can deal with them. Mind you, this is a part of a guide to understanding women!

How do Women Test Men and How to Pass the Test?

Okay, it is the time to fight guys, if you truly love her, then you have to pass the test! Women test guys on several aspects in a relationship. Yes, that is how complicated they are! Women, to say the least basically involves testing for loyalty, attention and trust. Here we go then! The time is ticking!

Test #1
The first comes the loyalty test. Many times women feel insecure in the relationship. In case your girl calls you up constantly and irks you with 'where are you' 'what are you up to', just do not get worked up. Never ever lie to such questions. Give precise answers, but never lie. If you lose your head and start a fight, well, then you have had it. Even if you would not be doing anything unacceptable, your girl is going to be suspicious. Take this as a serious relationship advice guys!

Test #2
A woman in a relationship needs to know that whatever she says is being given an ear. In short, she needs full attention of her partner and she can test it for sure! If you are reading or doing anything else and your girl starts talking to you, make sure that you pay complete attention to what she is saying. Better still, keep aside whatever you are doing, give your inputs to the conversation and then go back to what you were doing. If you do not listen to a woman when she is talking, you would be committing the worst crime ever against her! Speaking and sharing is important as that can sort out the relationship issues, if any, hence, pay attention guys!

Test #3
Another test is following the gaze of the guy. If you are out somewhere - eating or drinking and if a beautiful, sexy woman goes by, your girl will immediately look at you to see how you look at the woman who passed by. To pass this test, casually glancing at her and then looking back at your girl is the best bet. That will mean you are getting to the tricks of understanding women! Gaze at the girl till she disappears and you are calling for trouble!

This was just a trailer of how a woman has these discreet and instant methods of being sure if he is the guy. There are many more such things which fall in this category! So, the next time, your girl behaves in a weird manner or poses questions totally out of the blue, be alert!