- Pedro Calderon de la Barca
Here is relationship advice for women and tips for winning over a guy.
Quick Tip: If you want to attract a guy who is fun, friendly, exciting, and happy, make sure you yourself are like that.
Quick Tip: Red and black are the two quick attention-seeking colors. Try those, or find the one that suits you the best.
Quick Tip: You need to achieve the perfect balance between being sweet, friendly, and being mysterious, with the right attitude.
Quick Tip: Try to let go of your negative traits, be more confident, and cheerful.
Quick Tip: Have varied interests, hobbies, and a colorful life. Guys like girls who are smart, friendly, and easy to talk to or get along with.
* Why did you break up?
* Do you really love him?
* Does he still like you?
* Does he have a girlfriend?
The first thing to do is to contact him again and initiate a conversation. It may not be easy, but definitely easier than making friends with a stranger. Have a casual and cool approach, and keep sentimentality at bay.
In order to win back your ex, you need to appear more confident, dress to kill, and show him what he has lost. Do not be sentimental, or constantly remind him of the wrong he has done to you. Being fun will attract him to you more than your tearful declarations.
You can plan meeting up casually for coffee. Show interest in things he likes to do, you can even participate in a few, if possible. You can talk about the beautiful and fun times you both spent together. Be very careful not to restart the blame game!
Do not show that you desperately want him back, just keep your cool. Drop hints about your intentions, be mysterious, and play smart. Remember not to push too hard as it may confuse him. This may be a little tricky, but it is a sure way to win your guy back.
❤ Do not stare at him or he may think you are creepy and avoid you completely. Do not focus too much of your attention on him when in a group.
❤ Play hard-to-get, but at the same time let him know that you are available. Ignoring him completely, playing mind games, etc., is a total no-no.
❤ See if he gets jealous when you flirt with other guys. If he does, he is interested. If his shyness prevents him from expressing his feelings, wait for some time for him to feel comfortable.
❤ On the contrary, do not misinterpret kind or helpful nature with being interested. The guy may consider you just a friend and be good to you, without thinking otherwise.