How to Tell a Girl You Love Her

"I love You"...These are the sweetest words that anyone can say to us. I am sure nobody will ever mind someone telling them that they are in love with them. If we all feel so great on hearing these words, then why is it that we get scared when we have to say them? REJECTION...a possibility that the other person might not reciprocate our feelings - that's the most common reason why people get all jittery when they have to express their feelings.

How to Express Your Feelings to a Girl

The first thing to remember when you tell someone that you love them is that no one can force you to fall in love. It has to come naturally! So, do not expect a positive response. It's entirely up to her whether she feels the same way about you as you do for her. Secondly, do not expect an immediate response. If she says she needs time to think over it, that's all right. Some people can feel overwhelmed in such a situation and need time to think how they themselves feel about the whole thing.

I assume that you know her well and are friends with her. Sometimes, especially in one's teen years, lots of boys mistake infatuation for love. So, if you are simply mesmerized by her good looks, instead of going and telling her that you love her, start with being friends first. Know the girl, become friends with her, know about her personality, her likes and dislikes. See whether you two gel and connect. Only once you know her and like her, not only for her looks but also for the kind of person she is, that you should express your feelings. If you simply go and tell her that you love her while she does not even know that you exist, she might think you are a freak and would not even be ready to become friends with you! So, avoid this situation and try to know the girl first!

For those of you who are friends with a girl or are dating her and have developed very strong feelings for her, the best way to express your feelings is by being honest about the whole thing. Once you are in love, stop playing any kind of mind games with the person. Be very genuine and mean whatever you say to the girl. But before that, be sure of your own feelings. Don't be in a rush to express your feelings. Wait. Take your time. Know how you feel. If you still feel that this girl is the one who makes your world go round, only then go ahead and express your love for her.

Taking the girl out on a romantic candlelight dinner is the best way to show your love for her. Carry a gift for her. Give her compliments on the way she is dressed. Hold her hand and talk softly in her ears. Be romantic, fun, cute, all at once! And then tell her those three magical words "I love you". If the girl is all nervous, don't be serious, ease up the situation and hold her hands. Tell her that you do not expect any answer right away, but just wanted to let her know how you feel. On the other hand, if you get "I love you too" from her, then nothing like it!

Simply by saying that you love her and not following it up with any action, is not going to get you anywhere. So, become the girl's best friend by being there for her whenever she needs someone. Be a good listener, take care of her, be affectionate, hug her, kiss her, give her compliments and most importantly, become trustworthy. If you do all these things for a girl, not you, she will be the one saying "I love you" to you, all the time!