How to Make Love

There are myriads of ways to express our love towards our partner. Being physically intimate is one of the most important and much desired forms of love. Love making has certain dimensions associated to it. While quenching sexual thirst is a normal desire for all, being intimate and close to someone very special during love making is certainly, a deeper and much-needed aspect. We all want to share our life and love with someone very close so that the bonding blossoms into a healthy relationship. Hence, it's important to learn the art of love making.

Making Love to a Woman
The whole idea of learning how to make out is to share a deep bonding with someone and if you want to increase the intensity of your physical intimacy to great heights, certainly express her that you want her and you love her. I mean, if you mean it from your heart, she will automatically understand it. Your eyes must speak the intensity and craving you've got for your beloved. And the golden rule is to keep an eye contact all the while through the act, till culmination.

Kiss and Pass the Test
Kissing is just like a preliminary exam that will help you to gain further access to the main exam (her body). Your passionate kiss can determine the further intensity of your love making. And since there are variety of kissing techniques, you will be spoiled for choice (great guys, isn't it?). You can kiss all over her body, every inch of her body, in fact. However, nothing is better to start with, than her soft lips. And when it comes to kissing her lips, why not try French kiss. French kissing is certainly one of the most passionate and enticing kisses and you've got to use it for maximum pleasure during foreplay. Don't rush. Spend sufficient amount of time rubbing her upper lips softly (yeah, be soft, have patience). Gently, tug her lips between your lips, after you have licked her upper lips for sometime. Besides lips, the area between chin and her throat is (aah...) certainly very sensual. Won't you love brushing your lips there. You should, for sure. Then, try it. In fact, do it to master the tips.

She Needs More
Ok, the stage is set, you both are passionately kissing and the intensity is increasing. However, men don't hurry to the final act immediately (patience, you know, is a prized virtue). Still, she needs more than kisses (and you're ready to give her, great, go ahead). Don't rush, that is the key to long-lasting love making. You need to master more foreplay tips to make her feel more aroused. Since women are highly sensitive to touch, you've got to ensure you make her arouse by properly kissing the erogenous spots on her body. Know more on some erogenous parts of her body:

• Face: You can certainly start by kissing her all over the face, gently. Another act you can do is to massage the area above her eyebrows with your thumbs, slowly and softly. She will love it. Try it out.
• Ears: So you thought, ears have no use in love making? Well, they do have significant role to play. Researchers say, the rim of a woman's ear is very sensitive. Why not touch or massage the rim of the ear and kiss it by gently caressing her back of the head with forefingers. Watch her feel more of you. And you can, you know, whisper in her ears, 'honey, you're beautiful' or ' I want you more'.
• Neck and Lips: These are the most soft spots on a woman's body and so you can't resist to start from them. Kiss her all over the neck and lips and she would love every part of it.
• Legs: Touch has a sensation. Tickle with your forefingers her thighs all the way to vagina but pull before you reach there (patience, again friends). Gentle kisses and touches work better. Since, she will love it, be careful to make it pleasurable. And guess, she will want more.
• Breasts: The most erogenous spot on a woman's body and also the one that causes the most impact on a man's psyche are breasts (certainly, in competition with a pair of hot legs). Kiss the area above and under the breast softly. Don't be in a rush to reach to the nipples. Eventually, you will reach there. Stimulation of breasts can set the mood for her to experience the big - O. Keep teasing the nipples in a soft manner. Ensure that she is enjoying (she must be). Spend quality time in kissing this nerve rich spot.
• Back of the Knee: Yeah, back of the knee is an area for certain and instant arousal. She may find it ticklish at first, but have fun doing it. Cover her entire back of the leg and slowly move your finger on her calf and leg, tickle at her at the back of the knee.
• The Back: Her back, well, is another area that can enhance arousal and give maximum pleasure. Give her a gentle rub down, gently massage between her shoulder blades kissing softly and passionately at intervals. Give her back some passionate kisses and the occasional nibble too.
• The Stomach: A flat sexy stomach (ahh..) is certainly a loved spot to kiss and hence you can kiss her stomach all the way through navel. Kiss, kiss and kiss.
• Fingers and forearms: Well, fingers are a way to communicate and holding her fingers in your hands, slowly caressing them and tickling it all through the forearms. Kiss her forearms and make her feel want more.

Some more foreplay tips include massaging her body with a good smelling oil, taking a shower together or applying oil on each others body. Once you are done with the foreplay part and remember the time limit is not fixed. It all depends on how long you want to carry the act and the intensity you want to build. Now, that foreplay is about to end, you can move on to the next stage.

Talk Dirty
Talking dirty is another way to enhance sexual pleasure and is an important aspect of love making. Since you know her body, you must be knowing what is your piece-de resistance). Some examples of dirty talking are, 'baby, you smell so delicious, can I just take a bite of you..and then some more or 'I love smelling you, sniffing your body...can I have it'. Or, you have no idea how much I want you, right now. It certainly is an erotic way to pep up things in the bedroom. Use dirty talking as an effective tool and don't let the power of words go waste. They work at the right time, at the right place and at the right moment! And when will you say to her, all you wanted to say, if not in these moments of prime intimacy.

Give Her Oral Sex
Oral sex for many couples is the best option to start love making. It depends on your comfort level. If your partner loves oral sex then you can, for sure entertain her. Oral sex enhances takes you to heights of pleasure before switching to the final act. Be slow in performing oral sex. Slowly lick the outer edges of her genital area and make enhance her pleasure. Once she is aroused, you can carry on the act of sucking and licking as long as she wants for it. For better orgasms, oral sex is certainly a great booster. With sweet, passionate and juicy kisses, you can really turn her on. Once she is aroused and stimulated to a level that she wants you..and I mean she really pulls you inside herself (practically), it's a sign that you both should proceed for the finale.

The Climax
Now, that you both just want to be one with each other, you need to slowly begin the sexual intercourse. Men on top or the missionary position is certainly one of dominating love positions for men and it enhances the pleasure by giving her maximum sensation. When it comes to her turn, women on top is one of the oldest forms of sexual positions and in this case, since she is aware of her G-spot, she can easily experience a wonderful orgasm. And there are whole lot of things to try as your intimacy advances and you both become more aware about each others body. There are hundreds of sexual position that couples can try as they graduate in their physical intimacy level.

It has to be understood that proper communication creates a great chemistry between lovers and so bringing each other in the mood becomes easier. So, the bottom line is to understand your partner. For those who're seeking love making techniques for the first time, they must ensure that they're ready for first time sex, both mentally and physically.

One important thing to understand is that love making is certainly a blissful experience and so when it ends, you certainly will feel different. Don't miss this opportunity to tell your beloved how dear she is to you and how much you love her...to express more aptly..Cuddling and snuggling beside you, I'm lost, intoxicated by your smell, bewitching eyes and then some more. All I want is you and your love. As I hold you in these arms, I feel you so close and with these arms, I promise to hold you forever..."