How to Let a Guy Know You Like Him

"Saying I LOVE YOU is important, but not enough. Remember, love is a verb, an action word. Sometimes, passive because it happens to us, but also active, because we choose to do it."- source unknown.

The entire world is at one side and this guy whom you like is at the other. The moment you look at him, or even hear his name, you have butterflies in your stomach. Every time you hear a love story or a love song, you imagine you and him, every time he looks at you, you feel special, you feel alive, you feel as if he is the only reason you exist. If all this sounds familiar, then you have fallen for your special guy! So what to do now? How to let the guy know you like him more than a friend? Girls usually are very shy when it comes to taking control of things related to love! The mentality that it should be the guy's initiative to take the first step always pushes the thought of being the first one to make a move. But, HELLO!! How do you expect the guy to know that you like him?? Give him some signs girl! OK OK ... I know you don't wanna be like too obvious and all!

Signs To Convey a Guy That You Like Him More Than a Friend

Here is what you can do to let a guy know you like him, without being obvious.

Smile When You Talk to Him
SMILE is the first thing to show a guy that you like him. Now you will say that anyone generally tends to smile while talking to someone to be kind and polite. But, the key difference here will be, 'your smile itself!' Take this test to check! Go stand in front of the mirror, think of your friends and smile. NOW, think of HIM and smile. See the difference for yourself! :) PS: Smile when it comes naturally and don't smile at each and every moment and freak the guy out!

Make Frequent Eye Contact
I know you don't have to do it deliberately because you just can't stop looking at him!! But, you want him to know how you feel so it's important that he sees you admiring him! Don't overdo it, but do it! As soon as he looks at you, keep looking at him for a few seconds and then look down with a little blush that will come naturally! After 2-3 seconds look back at him, if he is still looking at you, HE IS INTO YOU ALSO!

Show Him Your Flirting Qualities
A little flirting can help you (indirectly) convey your guy that you are interested in him. How? Well, say for example you guys go for clubbing, dance with him, get a little close but not too much, put your arms around him for a few seconds and then move back and keep distance. Stick to the little harmless flirting ONLY or else he might end up forming a different opinion about you!

Use Your Body Language
Your body language speaks a lot about you! Flip your hair when you are talking to him, when he makes you smile touch his shoulders while you smile, lean towards him when you are talking to him, but not too much! You don't wanna look desperate, do you?

Ask Him for Help
Make sure you always ask ONLY HIM to help you when needed. Please don't ask him to lift your handbag if it's too heavy! Ask him to help you when you genuinely need it! Like in case of homework or projects, anything which appears genuine! Don't overdo it again as he might think you use him all the time to do your stuff!

Play the Teasing Games - Show Your Fun Side
There is a difference between teasing him and insulting him! I know you wanna be different to him and all but then remember, if you can feel bad about things, then so can he! Tease him in a harmless way. For example, joke about a peculiar habit of his, try to mimic him, if you see him getting offended, stop right there! This will make him realize that you respect his feelings! If he takes it sportingly and jokes about you too, even you need to take it humorously! And as I keep on saying every time, don't overdo it!

Build Up a Conversation
Guys like girls with whom they can really talk too and connect. Try to know about his likes and dislikes, if they match to yours, great! If they don't, Please don't pretend to like them! In fact, it can be really interesting if you guys can discuss your different opinions on a particular topic and try to understand each others perspective. FOCUS, discuss and NOT argue! You don't have to agree to everything he says, respecting each others opinion is what matters.

Praise Him - Give Compliments
You have ended up falling for him because there is something different that you saw only in him and not anyone else, right? Tell him how different he is from other guys, about his qualities, about his beliefs and how you admire all this about him and learn from them. Don't start praising about his looks and eyes and body for God's sake! And sound genuine but not in areas where he might think you are desperate!

Be An Understanding Friend - Show Him Your Mature Side
The beginning of a strong bond is always friendship. If you can't be good friend to him then the relationship won't last for long! Be a friend who understands him, who accepts him the way he is, with all his faults, with all his qualities. As a matter of fact there is no one perfect in this world! Listen to him when he discusses things that upset him, give him your opinion but don't ever force your advice on him. The fact that you are there for him will be a perfect way to get him to like you.

Be What You Are
The most important thing is to just be what you are, just be yourself! Trust me on this one. If you can't be yourself around him, there is no point to go further! In the long run, he will know what you really are, you can't pretend to be what he wants you to be all life long, can you? All these tips are only worth it if he likes you for what you are!

When it comes to relationships, they can be very complicated. You don't want to end up in a disaster instead of a beautiful romantic journey! So, before you go further with the whole process of impressing a guy, be sure he is the one! Observe him closely and then decide, is he the one? If you are sure he is the one and he is NOT TAKEN, go for him and sweep him away with your charm. Good luck! :)