How to Know If He's the One

Yes, it takes two to tango. It also takes the two of you to make your existence complete. They say that matches are made in heaven. But are they really? I have asked this question to myself, like a zillion times and I have never got an answer to that dilemma. I have seen my friends decide that 'he is the one' in just one rendezvous in connection with an arranged marriage (a topic which is tastefully devoured by uncles and aunts of young men and women of marriageable age in India). The day after I get the news and go almost 'WHAT'? In just one meeting how can you decide, if he is the one? The answer from the other end has always been - 'Yes I decided. You come to know, if you two click or not'. I absolutely marvel at the ease with which my friends have told me this. I am sure even Einstein would not have been able to find an answer to this! But let's try to figure this one out for ourselves!

How to Know if He's The One For You?

Signs - You can only decipher and interpret signs from your potential dream guy. Actually this can be a really tricky thing, trying to understand if he is the one. Especially if you have been in a relationship before, expect this to be nothing less than a treasure hunt. Still here are some things which might help in that, considering that you know this guy and are on good talking terms with him.

Gives an Ear and not a Cold Shoulder
As has been mentioned over and over again in relationship articles, women need to vent, not just vent share out their feelings and thoughts more, as compared to men. If your potential dream guy for whom you pluck petals hears you out patiently and listens to whatever you have to say, well, he might be the one for you. It is also an indication that the guy wants to be around you for long term.

Two Golden Words
Do you completely trust him? Is he worthy of your respect? If the answer to these questions is in affirmative then you have put another piece in the puzzle of whether he is the one. If you don't admire the way he conducts himself and treats others and himself, you surely would not be able to spend your entire life with him.

Acceptance the Key
How do you tell if someone loves you? Well, the answer is simple. If the guy can proudly say that this is the one in front of a whole bunch of people - even when you are out of sorts and not exactly in the suitable attire. If this happens, chances are that the guy really does love you and loves you as you are and accepts you. You do not have to change for him. This is when you get the answer to whether he's the one.

Odd Factor Out
Do you two share things in common? If you have a lot of things in common going for you two, possibility is that you two might go a long way. These common factors will help a great deal in developing and strengthening the bond you share.

Care Fare
If he genuinely cares for you and pampers you in a good way, that could be an indication that he's the one for you. By pampering I mean he shows through his actions and behavior that you are special for him. That is also an answer to how to know if he's in love with you. He shows it in some way or the other that you are the one for him!

Well, there are many other innuendos and intricacies involved in knowing if he's the one and also if he's interested. But I would rather leave them for you to get those coveted signals! The most prominent one which will be from your heart! Wish you all the best in love!

P.S.: Even if the above factors have been given to know if he is the one, things may not go exactly like that. As you can never be sure of a human mind and more over the way a guy thinks! Ciao!