How to Know If He Loves You

He loves me.. he loves me not.. he loves me.. he loves not.. he loves me.. yes! This was how Sarah used to spend her entire day from the moment she started dating David. She loved him, but she was not sure whether he shared the same feelings as he did. So she started following the grand old way of knowing whether he loved her or not; plucking the petals of flowers and then coming to a conclusion.

Ladies, this is the 21st century and you should know better than plucking out flower petals just to know whether or not he loves you. Use your power of observations, use your common sense, to understand whether he is the one for you or not. So you are probably wondering how to know if he loves you. Well, there are certain signs and actions on the part of the guy which will show whether or not he's in love with you. I know you are eager to know what those signs are so that you can verify whether the guy you are dating at present loves you or not. So without wasting any time, let's move on and see how to tell if a guy likes you.

Does He Love You

Consciously or unconsciously, when a guy is in love with you, he is bound to give you some signs from which you can understand that he likes you and that he is serious about your relationship. Here are some of those signs and indications of his love for you. So ladies, watch out for these 'does he like me' and know how your guy feels for you.

I Just Called to Say....
If a guy calls you up for no reason and just talks about what he did the entire day, asks about your day, talks about random stuffs, or for something which you know he knows better than you do. He is just looking for an excuse to be with you, to talk to you and nothing else.

Can't Take My Eyes of You
Suppose you are at a party and the guy who you like is also there. You guys are standing at a distance, when you feel someone looking at you. You turn and see it's him staring at you. When you look at him, he looks away but not before you can spot the cute, secret smile playing on his lips. The guy who really loves, will always try to find out ways to steal a glance at you without you realizing it. When he knows that you have seen him, he shifts his eyes. A definite sign that answers your question how to know if he likes you.

He Remembers the Important Dates
Be it your birthday, or the day of your first kiss, or your three months anniversary, if he remembers it and gets you an anniversary gift or birthday gift, then rest assured, he is crazy about you and will do anything just to please you. But, just a warning here. If he forgets the date, then do not fret thinking that he does not love you, and that you are not important to him. Men have this tendency of forgetting dates. That's their habit. So a genuine relationship advice for women the world over is that if he forgets some important date, try to overlook it or just remind him a week beforehand about the great day.

Surprise! Surprise!
It's not your birthday, neither is it your anniversary. But still, he gets you some gifts or takes you out for a surprise dinner. This sign will answer your question about how to know he is into you. Popping surprises into your life is a definite sign that he loves you. Sometimes he might write a poetry for you, maybe a love letter or maybe he dedicates a song to you and writes some song for you (if he can write a song).

Some Tiny Little Things
Pulling out the chair for you, standing up when you come in, never keeping you waiting, opening the door for you, behaving politely with you no matter where you are, helps you even if you haven't asked for it, switches off his phone when he is with you, listens to everything you say with rapt attention, confesses his feelings (which a guy hardly does), keeps making you feel special all the time, gives you nicknames, etc, all these are signs that answer your question of how to know if he is the one for you.

While reading this article, the name or image keeps popping up in your mind, doing these things, that is the guy for you, the one who really loves you. So keep away those flowers and try to recall the incidents, the moments you had with your guy. Is he like this, or is he just playing around with you? If he is nothing like this, then give him a chance. Maybe he just cannot express his feelings properly. Next what you do... is up to you. It's a great thing to know that the man whom you love with all your heart, loves you in the same way or maybe even more. It's a good feeling... to be in love, true love!