Ok! So welcome to the 21st century. Women in today's day and age are not afraid to be the ones to initiate intimacy. More so, the gay fraternity can now openly announce their preferences as well. So, the bottom line is, if someone (anyone) wants, they can be the ones to initiate the intimacy in the relationship. What better way to increase the heat, than a perfect first kiss! Whoa! But wait, don't you want your first kiss to be special? Then you might as well, read through the following passages to know exactly how to make that happen.
I am not going to get into the technicalities of kissing. I am sure that it is a phenomenon that has an ability to happen naturally. However, there are a few things that you need to keep in mind to bring it to the verge and point of happening. Confused? Well, kissing someone is a very normal way to express your love and affection, still you don't want to be kissing every guy you know, right? God no! That could be a catastrophe. That is, he will probably kiss you back, but then, your impression in his mind will be of a lusty nature, not a meaningful one.
Tips on How to Kiss Your Guy
You can look through many techniques before your first kiss (while in preparation for the same), yet all those notes will probably make its way out the window, leaving you to rely on your intuitive judgment. So then, how to go about it? The best way to kiss a guy for the first time ... is to get kissed by him! It is also the most dependable one. That does not mean that you wait until eternity. No. It simply means that you make him want to kiss you. Bring him to a position where he cannot overpower his desire to kiss you. So the act is his; but the intention is yours. Something like the puppet master! There are many ways to make yourself, the situation and the ambiance irresistible for kissing. Here's a look at the many ways ...
Get to Know Him
Pickup lines are a great way to make a guy aware of your interest in him. Under most circumstances, that is enough to make a guy kiss you, unless he is shy. In that case, extending the friendship and spending time getting to know each other is a great way to ease the pressure and carry on with the plan. However, if you are a teenager and so is your man of interest, then there is a possibility that he is delaying the kissing, because he doesn't know how to kiss for the first time. A first timer can be nervous about it, so easing him into it and helping him out could help you out as well. More so, that will develop a fondness for you in his mind. No one minds that, right?
This trick is for adults and teenagers as well. Organize a party and invite him to it. Any excuse would do, "my parents are out of town" or "it's my dog's second birthday". I am sure that he will not refuse, if he is interested in you. Once the party starts, you could play a game of spin the bottle or naughty truth and dare and make sure that he has to kiss you. Once you both have shared a kiss, it is fairly clear that it won't be an issue again. This idea, if implemented well, can be carried out by absolutely anyone. Yes, even a 30-year-old. In fact, it could be fun and you might end up helping out someone else for their first kiss with a guy as well.
Go for Long, Long Drive
A long drive works for the guys. So why not for you? You could ask him to take you out on a long drive or you could take him out. The night, the atmosphere and the moon is perfect to induce romance into the mood. You could also carry along some wine or champagne with you. The influence of alcohol would work to your advantage, my dear. But beware of getting too drunk! Basically, this would give him a clear message that you are interested in him. Then looking into each other's eyes is enough to break the ice and bring on the heat. It would also help if you made sure that your lips look irresistible. You could try some gloss or lip balm. Attract his attention to your lips and you are set!
Develop Physical Connect
Physical connection early on is one of the solutions to share a kiss with your guy. No physical connection and it is an established fact that no guy will be comfy kissing. Cuddling, holding hands, being playful .... engage in these light-hearted acts to get closer to the guy and your work is almost done! All you have to do is to wait and watch, and I'm sure that splendid moment would just be around the corner!
Try Suggestive Words and Expressions
These days, women no more fear taking the first step in a relationship. Coming up with intimate words can do the trick, and most of the women make good use of it. Guys, on the other hand, resist the use of words. What you can do is, give hints through words or your body language that you are fascinated by him; try flirting too. Verbal intimacy works on a guy's psyche and who knows, you might be rewarded very soon for your effort!
Gaze at His Lips
Gazing at a guy's lips now and again, is a way of hinting to him what your real intentions are. Let him take notice of it, and it will help set up the intimacy. He too would start looking at your lips and very soon, both of you would end up kissing. Good tactic, ain't it? One thing to add here is, directly look into those eyes of his when you get a chance; it'll set the tempo, and you'll succeed in getting what you want - that first kiss!
After you've shared a kiss, keep silent for a moment to absorb the feeling. There are many tricks that you can improvise on to make your first kiss memorable. The basic point is to make sure that he knows that you wouldn't mind it if he kissed you. Once he is convinced of that, then all you need is the mood. Let's face it, I don't think any of us would go wrong with setting the mood, right? Be prepared to make the first move, because one cannot say; it might be the start of something beautiful!