How to Keep a Guy Interested in You

Guys are simple... women are not simple and they always assume that men must be just as complicated as they are, only way more mysterious. The whole point is guys are not thinking much. They are just what they appear to be. Tragically. ~ Dave Barry

It really isn't that difficult you know, to keep a guy interested for long. Guys are simple and have simple expectations. It is we women who tend to complicate things at times, unknowingly of course. If you are dating someone and want to know how to keep your man interested forever, the things that are mentioned below, have to be kept in mind. All that it takes to keep not only the guy but even you interested for long is the thought of 'something new'. Everyone gets bored eventually if you don't try to do something new or if the whole surprise element goes missing. So let's just look at these small steps that might help us to keep a guy interested, till eternity.

How You Can Keep Your Guy Interested Forever...

Maintain the simplicity as that works the best. Don't complicate things when there isn't a need to complicate them. Also remember, that guys are simple and complex things scare them, so keep that emotional baggage away for most of the time. Don't ask him to many questions and don't answer the questions he doesn't ask you. If he isn't asking you, he doesn't want to know. It is that simple!

Do not doubt too much over things that hardly matter. If you are suspecting that someone else is in his life, let it be and keep the suspicion to yourself unless you don't find the truth staring at your face. Don't ask him where he was and what he was doing all the time as men hate women who cling all the time. Give him his space and in return, don't forget, you'll be getting yours too.

Keep doing something special for him. Cook him his favorite meal, go out for those romantic dinners, have those quiet evenings, have those crazy parties, take that one special walk, make something for him, take those romantic vacations, don't miss out on movies and the list just continues. The basic of all this is to keep on doing things together. If you have a busy schedule, keep sending those special texts once in a while and tell him you miss him. After sometime, you will be so used to each others company that living apart will seem like a nightmare.

Looks are something that will need attention if you are ignoring them. Learn to maintain yourself properly. It's all right if you don't have the heavenly appearance of a goddess. All you need is some good dressing sense, not being too loud with what you wear but also make an effort to put on some fine clothes and some fine make-up. This will show him that you want to look good when he's around and that his opinion does matter to you. A well kept woman is always better than someone with two wrong socks.

Dominating is certainly not the way of taking this under control. If you want something to be done the way you want it, tell him nicely and explain. Yes, explain. Don't go around shouting orders for no reason. If you tell him properly, he might just listen the first time. On the other hand, if you keep behaving like his mom (there are times when you need to) and making him feel like a child all the time, he will revolt. Maybe after sometime but he will. Give him the confidence that he needs and that he deserves.

Now that you almost know how to keep a guy interested in you, you can know this one last thing. Be responsible and be a woman a man can come back to. If you are carefree and careless, that is how the man is going to perceive you. Men like women who are responsible and who can handle situations when they're needed to. Learn to take emotional responsibility. Learn to keep things under control when needed and learn to hold people together. Don't try to be too judgmental about his friends, he'll never be judgmental about yours.

It really isn't that difficult, is it? Simplicity will erase all the doubts you have, in regards to how to keep a guy interested in you. Just be. Don't think too much and don't be judgmental about everything around. Remember that being opinionated is good, but too many opinions do lead to confusion and a lot of other problems. So, keep it simple, and you'll always have things going your way.