How to Get Over a Guy

He's dumped you or you broke up with him. Either way, you need to know how to get over a guy. Firstly, yes we need men, but not when they come with their 'baggage'. Sorry boys, it wasn't meant to be! Moving on, for tips on how to get over him, forget about 'hurt', 'heart broken', 'shattered' blah blah. All this is escapism from dealing with reality. He's gone now, because someone better is in store for you. Thinking positive and an optimistic outlook is the way out of the mess, and build a new relationship. So, follow me as I guide you safely through this bumpy ride! Fasten your seat belts, get ready and read on...

How to Get Over a Guy

Memory Loss
Getting over a crush is easier than to get over someone you've loved or liked for a longer period of time. This is true, but not impossible. Take a box and place all the items and the things that remind you of him. Put them all together and just trash them. If he wasn't meant to be yours, then why should the memories remain?! Throw him out, lock, stock and barrel, with the memories and all the things that remind you of him. Read more about how to get over a break up.

Friends are Forever
The clichéd saying, 'friends are forever', would never mean so much to you. Missing friends, is an obvious symptom of getting over an ex. Call them up and catch up with them. Hang out at malls, go shopping, spend a day at a spa and catch up over a coffee. You did this when he wasn't with you, so why can't you when he's gone? Your friends are forever, because they will be by your side no matter what! So, get up and make the calls, to beat the blues and paint the town red! Read more about handling a break up.

Rigorous Regime
Stop wondering how to get over your ex, and start getting some action back in your life. Women usually find shopping or something even more unproductive as a stress buster. That's why it takes them longer to figure out how to get over a guy. Try something different. Get over a break up, by joining a gym, dance class or learn an instrument. Believe me, this is the most creative way of letting out your bottled emotions. On the plus side, there are high chances of meeting handsome men at these places too. So why not kill two birds with one stone?! Read more about how to survive a break up.

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Secret Diaries
As I write this, I am getting more and more convinced by the power of putting down thoughts in words. Maintain a secret diary and make it a part of your life, and the solution for how to get over a guy will reveal in a matter of time. Often, a break up leaves us at a loss of a person who always heard us out. Here's your chance to find someone loyal and faithful. Tell your diary about everything that is happening in your mind. Share the secret thoughts, so that as you let them out, your mind will feel so much more clearer and at peace. Read more about how to deal with a break up.

Do What You Want
Make a list of things that you always wanted to do and couldn't because someone else was taking up your time. Let these things be as trivial as they may be. Making an effort to see these small dreams come true is a huge leap from feeling blue. As a break up advice, just do whatever you want to and wanted to do, except going back to him. He was never worth you anyway! Read more about tips for getting over a break up.

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How to get over a guy is never a big question with an inscrutable answer. It's often the loss, pain and separation anxiety that leads to trauma. Getting over a guy is a part of growing up. Learn a lesson from this small hurdle, 'what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger'. It's a small hurdle because, when you see the bigger picture of life, the worry of how to get over your first love will seem as insignificant as you in front of the ocean. I hope these inputs help you to recuperate and get back on your feet with unbeatable zeal and passion!