How to Get Her Back

So your girlfriend has just broken up with you, making you all miserable and lonely. Although being a man, you might not confess to it right away, yet it is making you feel low and sad. That is why you are sitting and reading this article, right? So now that you are alone and you miss her a...LOT.. and want to know how to get her back, I think, being a woman myself, I'll be able to help you. Here are a few tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back.

Tips on How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Before letting in on the ways to get her back, I would like to ask, what led to the breakup in the first place? Normally there are two reasons for a break up. Firstly, either you have cheated on her or have made some other unforgivable mistake. Or, she has lost interest in you and wants to know/ date other guys. In either of these scenarios, the following tips on how to win her love back, work.

Do Not Act Needy
I know you will say that since you miss her so much, you feel like calling her up or meeting her, but I would suggest do not do either. If the girl has initiated the breakup, it means that she does need a break from you. So if you try to meet her or call her in such a situation, she is bound to turn down all your initiatives, plus you will seem very desperate and needy to her, thus, making her run away from you even more.

Cut All Ties with Her
A very important tip on how to get her back is to cut off all sources of contact with her for about two to three weeks. Not calling or contacting her will make you miss her even more, right? If this is true then if she really loved you at some point of time, she is going to miss your presence, your words and your embrace too. So by cutting off ties with her, you are actually giving her time to realize, how important you are in her life. And if she does not miss you or has started dating other guys, then buddy, one revelation for you... she has moved on. But the risk of cutting all ties with her is worth taking, for you as well as her to analyze your relationship.

Analyze your Relationship
In the meantime, think about what went wrong with your relationship. Make a list of things that your ex used to dislike about you as well as a list of things that made her fall for you. If you have cheated on her and that is the reason for the break-up, cut all ties with the girl you cheated your girlfriend on.

Resume Contact
After about three weeks, make a casual call to your girlfriend. Tell her that you have called just to say hi and to check if she was all right after the breakup. The most effective tip on how to get her back is not to straightway say that you want her back or say things like you miss her and you love her. Most probably, she will be polite and will speak to you. Call her casually a few more times, say on alternate days. If you have common friends, plan group outings with her and your friends.

Do the Things She Likes
Meet her up for a coffee or tea, just as friends. Whenever you meet her, do the things that she likes, such as, if she liked your jokes, keep some good ones ready or if she liked that you treated her like a princess, pull chairs for her or open doors for her.

Apologize
Once you feel that she has again become friendly with you, apologize to her if the reason for break up was cheating on your part. If you want to know what to say to get her back, I would suggest that just keep your conversation simple and genuine, mean it when you apologize, and nine out of ten times, knowing women, it will be well received.

Ask Her on a Date
The last tip on how to get her back is when you see that she has forgiven you and is ready to take you back as a friend, do not fall in the friend zone. Ask her out on a date instead. If she says yes, then your strategy has worked, if she says no... then my friend it is time for you to move on too.

These are a few tips on how to get her back. I hope they work for you... they surely did work for my boyfriend!