How to Flirt with a Guy

You are hanging out with your friends in a bar, when you spot a real cute looking guy enter. Your heart goes out to him. Your friends tease you to go and talk to him, to flirt with him, but you reluctantly refuse. You force yourself to turn away from him and even though you are dying to go and just flirt with him and talk to him and ask him out for dinner or lunch or whatever, you cannot. And finally when the guy leaves, you regret not having talked to him. Your friends think that you were too shy or maybe you were not actually interested in talking to him, but you know the truth. Shy and not interested are all nonsense. The truth is that you do not know how to flirt with a guy. How you wish someone gave you some sensible flirting tips that would not embarrass you or put you in an awkward situation. Well! This article is like a dream come true then for you. It will give you all the tips that you need in order to flirt and that too without messing things up.

Flirting Tips for Girls

Flirting is an art girls and you should know how to master this art. As Helen Rowland has said:

"Flirting is the gentle art of making a man feel pleased with himself."
There are various means of letting a guy know that you want to be friends with him. Just follow the flirting tips for girls given below and you've got yourself a real cute guy.

Confidence
When you approach a guy for the first time, you have to be confident about yourself. While walking towards him, if you keep fidgeting or if you hesitate about approaching him, then you are already sending him negative vibes and believe me, that is not a good thing to do. Be sure of yourself and when you speak to him, don't just blabber. Instead use that cute sexy voice of yours and bowl him over.

Looking and Feeling Great
Hold on ladies! By looking great, I do not mean that you have to apply loads and loads of makeup just to impress your guy. I am sure guys go for natural beauty rather than an artificial look. Just be neat and clean and wear something you look decent in and comfortable in. It's not necessary that you have to wear provocative clothes to flirt with a guy. Be neat and clean, use a deodorant, make sure that your teeth is clean and that you do not have a bad breath. Check and double check on these things. Comb your hair neatly and tie it up or just leave it open; whatever looks good on you. The most important tip for how to flirt with a guy is feel great from within and that will show on your face and the way you carry yourself.

Body Language Tips
Now comes the most important tip on how to flirt with a guy, body language. Here are some tips. The first thing you have to do is 'compliment' him. Be sincere while doing so and actually mean what you say otherwise it will show on your face that you are just lying. A tiny compliment from a pretty girl like you is sure to put him on cloud 9. You can also try out some flirting lines for girls which can be a good ice breaker.

While walking past the guy, give him that playful lusty look of yours, hold his gaze for like a few seconds, smile and then glance away. That's one of the best flirting tips and tricks. Until and unless the guy is totally dumb, he will get the message and that look is sure to make a guy's heart go Ooh La La! While talking to that guy, look deeply into his eyes, and keep smiling.

Hair, is a real great asset for girls hence make good use of it. While talking to him, twirl your hair playfully and look at him. When you notice that the guy is looking at you, twist your hair around your fingers, run your hands through it and let each and every single hair on your head scream "Hey handsome! I am cute and so are you. Can we be friends?" Following these tips on how to flirt with a shy guy or a guy who is bold enough, the answer will surely be "of course, why not?"

Stay as close to him as possible. Lightly touch him on his shoulder, or lean against him casually. With your finger, lightly brush away his hair and the cat is in the bag. You can follow these tips on how to flirt with a guy in middle school or maybe high school or in college.

Flirting Over Text
If you want to learn how to flirt with a guy over text, then here are some tips that will surely help you. While sending the message, keep in mind the fact how well you know him or whether he would love to receive such messages or not? Also keep in mind the time. Sending him a message at 1 am or maybe at 6 in the morning (unless it's very important), will not be taken in a good way. Try and pick up a topic which both of you can participate in, such as maybe a music concert that you are going to, or maybe a wedding. Ask him about when he is going to reach, what he is going to wear etc. Also do not carry on sending messages for long and do not forget to use emotion cons along with your sense of humor. Ask open ended questions and keep it casual. You can also follow these steps to flirt with a guy online.

So, I hope you now know how to flirt with a guy. These tips have helped several girls in need. Just make sure that you do not go overboard and stay within your limits. Otherwise you might just give out the wrong signals and then things might get a bit out off hand. So, all the best girls!