How to Expose a Cheating Partner in Less than 48 hours

Key insights needed to understand the signs of a cheating partner. Understand them and learn how to catch them.
Dear reader,

I’m going to give you key insights in how to quickly read the signs of a cheating partner, without going over the usual clichés like: "change of tie", "distant", etc.

The below are not tips, it’s a method you can apply the second you stop reading.

If you are reading this, you are probably concerned and you might even be angry. You are worried your spouse is cheating on you.

First of all, you need to know that you are not alone. Thousands of persons ask themselves the same question. Its all part of the big game called love & relationships. People have been writing about cheating since the dawn of man.

In the below steps, we’re going to look at this together in a modern fashion.

First, let’s see what some of the common types of cheaters are nowadays:

1. The Internet Cheating Spouse
2. The Professional Cheating Spouse
3. The Night prowler Cheating Spouse

Secondly, let’s try and see what they are like:

The Internet Cheater

He spends a lot of time on his pc or laptop. He doesn’t like it when you use it, and when you do, he always needs "a couple of minutes" before you can use it. He hardly ever uses the same pc you are using, if you have two at home. He often logs on when you are not around, and insists on "checking his mail" multiple times a day. He might have a password on his profile or pc. He gets up at night to "check his mail", because he can’t sleep.

The Professional Cheater:

He’s a successful man with a good job and lots of charm. He has lunch with his colleagues every day, and sometimes goes out for a drink with his colleagues after work. In the beginning when you were together, he used to send you e-mails all day long. He loves parties with colleagues, and gets home drunk when he has them. He tells you all his colleagues go out like this, and that it is perfectly normal.

The Nightprowler Cheater:

He probably has a good source of income, because his lifestyle needs it if he wants to keep it a secret. He’s generally caring, but seems to have mood swings quite often. In general, when he wants something, he won’t stop. He’s obsessed by it. He’s probably an insomniac. He probably also looks at a lot of adult movies. When he goes out, he is reserved but has a reputation with the girls. He spends long nights out, using multiple excuses. The days after, he can be extremely nice and caring. Sometimes it is the opposite. He stays distant for days and irritable to anything. He’ll spend his money quite carelessly one week, and urge you to spend less the next;

Now that we have established three types of Cheaters (there are many more, but lets work with these for now), lets see what gives them anyway?

Catching the Internet Cheater:

If you have the same pc, check out the images and cookies in the temp folder. Most people only clear the history folder. They forget about all the other information.

When you’re asking to use the pc, don’t give him a couple of minutes to finish up. Get a change to look at the history before he clears to catch him red handed

Finally, you could use spy software. It’s available all over these days.

Busting the Professional Cheater:

Check out his friends and acquaintances on Facebook & Myspace. Has he added anyone lately? Do you see new names and numbers of women appearing in his phone?

Professional cheaters usually seduce their female colleagues by mail. When that goes well, they invite them for lunch, and maybe a drink after work. At that point in time, they won’t just be mailing, they be sending messages using their cell phones. That’s were you come in. You can bust him easily by looking over his phone bill. You see that recurring number? Sent at the time just before he usually comes in at night, or when he went for a cigarette on the porch that night? Take not of these things.

Grilling the Night Prowler

Night prowlers are complex. They can be caring husbands, gentle people - all the while leading a second life which you could never have imagined. A life in strip bars, red light areas or spent driving around in a car late at night in bad areas. Night prowlers have issues. If you don’t expose him, he might end up doing something that hurts you and him.

After having spent a night on the prowl, they will show a change in behavior. They start feeling guilty about the money they’ve spent, about the fact they’ve cheated on you.

There are 2 options: they become extremely irritable, and seem to want to pick fights. They avoid intimacy. The other option is that they become extremely caring. They tend to your every need, and show lots of affection. On both cases, they have a guilty conscience and are trying to fix it.

The best way to bust him is to check his credit card and bank statements. Look for the dates he went out, and set the alarm bell ringing when you see large transactions.

If you don’t want to wait for the end of the month, just go through the clothes he was wearing the night before. If you find a receipt of a large amount of cash, he’s toast.

But remember, these are just a few possibilities. Always try to figure out which type of person you are dealing with and look for the manner in which they can cheat most easily given their means and personality.

A great guide explaining all of this can be found here:

Is My Partner Cheating.

This guide will get you the proof you are looking for, with all methods clearly explained.

By Lisa Bartley
Published: 9/1/2009
 
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