How Important is Body Language in Dating?

If you think dating is all about the words you speak, then you are very far from the truth. When it comes to dating, nothing is more important than your body language. 'Speaking' the right dating body language is important because it tell your date what kind of person you are. And this can either make your date or break it.

The reason why the body language is so powerful is because it speaks directly to the subconscious mind. It wins over verbal communication at the time. If, for example, you are excite about something and yet you keep your arms folded, your body language communicates the opposite. But if you use the wrong words, all you need to help you win your date over is when your dating body language is well spoken.

Another reason why dating body language is so important is because if properly 'spoken' you can create attraction instantly. On the contrary, you would turn off a date and never get a second chance if you 'speak' it wrongly. Sounds harsh? Harsh or not, it is the truth and what you need to do is learn the language or expect little or no success with your dates.

Outlined below are 5 dating body language signals that will help you win your date if properly applied:

1. Good eye contact is essential. Ever wondered why people look away when they or others are talking? It is as a result of feeling uncomfortable or lacking interest in the topic. If you look away when your date is talking, your body language simply communicates feelings of tension. On the other hand, when you fail to maintain eye contact when you talk, your body language communicates insincerity. To avoid communicating these negative messages, maintain good eye contact both when you talk and when you listen.

2. Where possible, let your body speak. Use gestures, smiles, physical touches and winks to communicate, slowly. Just do it in moderation.

3. Do not fold your arms tightly as if you are feeling uncomfortable. Your date would interpret that to mean that you are insecure. Keep your hands inviting by laying them open to your date. Guys should spread their legs and take up as much space as necessary.

4. Words spoken calmly and slowly have more effect on the hearer. That leaves the impression that you do not lack confidence and security. Men who speak slowly and confidently are a huge attraction to women.

5. Add life to your smile. This does not mean that you should smile all the time. Only tensed people do so. Keeping the smile alive means that you smile whenever it is necessary to do so. Do not break the eye contact when smiling. A lively smile crosses all cultural boundaries and it is contagious.

That's it. So what if you can't 'speak' this dating body language? Learn the language like you learn habits. Practice. Be more outgoing. Practice what you have learned by meeting more singles. An automatic makeover is not possible. You acquired your present body language over a lifetime. That is why it would take some time to re-learn new positive habits. With constant practice, you will overcome your current negative dating body language.

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