How Do You Know if a Girl Likes You

The mind of a woman is like a uncrackable code for most guys. It is difficult to fathom what goes on in the female mind. Guys may spend hours together deciphering that one smile, that one glance or that one gesture, which leaves them wondering about how to know if a girl likes you. There is no foolproof formula that could tell you how exactly a girl feels about you. That is so because every girl is different and special in her own way. However, there are certain clues which can indicate that she wants to be more than just friends with you. I share some tips for lovelorn lads here, who need an insight into the feminine mind.

Before I say anything about the dating tips for men, let me make it clear that I am no shrink who specializes in reading women's minds. I just share whatever insights I have got in this matter through my experiences. They are not mind reading tricks exactly, but signs of attraction that can be perceived quite easily.

How do You Know if a Girl Like You for Real?

If you have read one of those online quizzes published elsewhere on the Internet, you already know all the cliche signs that they mention as indicators of a girl being interested in you. 'She will play with her hair', 'She will laugh at your jokes', 'She will sit with her legs pointed towards you'. .etc. etc. Well some girls may do all these things but there is more to it than this. Every girl has a unique way of showing her affection and most do not conform to cliches. Most are smart and they believe in dropping subtle signs, rather than stand with a 'I like You' flag in front of you. Here are some signs which might want to watch out for.

Smile and Positive Vibes
If you are wondering how to tell if a woman likes you, one of the surest signs is the genuine smile that she gives you every time you see her. The smile will probably make your day, if you are as smitten as she is. In whatever brief meetings you may have, she has a lot to say to you which she doesn't, but it is conveyed through her eyes. If you really want to understand how to know if a girl likes you, look into her eyes for they will tell you what you need to know.

Compliments
When a girl likes you, she compliments every single achievement of yours and encourages you to do better. She will want you to be the best of what you can be. She takes interests in your ambitions, dreams and hobbies. She will be the first to point out what looks good on you and what doesn't.

Goes out of Her Way to Help
She will want to help you out and she may go out of her way to do so. You may find out that, more often than never, she will be there for you when you are down and out. These are qualities that one finds in friends, but in her case, the concern will be even more. She will do things for you out of her own initiative. She will want to maintain whatever bond is there between you.

Remembers Slightest Details
A sure sign of her more than friendly interest in you is that she remembers small details about you. She might throw a party for you or remember to call you on your birthday, no matter where you are.

You Keep Running into Her
When a girl is really smitten, you will find that she runs into you quite often. She hangs around on the periphery of your world just so that you take notice of her.

Shares Her Deepest Thoughts
Your brief encounters may turn into long chats in person and over the phone where she shares her deepest thoughts with you. She would want to listen to you and get to know you better.

Discussing Other Girls is Unwelcome
You may find that a nice conversation with her, may suddenly go cold when you start discussing other girls with her. Your flirting with her closest girlfriend might drive her nuts. If you go so much as to flirt with her, she will respond favorably.

It is true that girls are more complex compared to guys, but they are not so difficult to understand if you really try. The best way to know is to gather courage and ask her out on a date! That way you will get to know for sure. You need to win over a lady's heart and take the relationship further. Don't wait for destiny to steer her towards you, it only happens in the movies. Make your own destiny!