Help - Can I Win My Ex Girlfriend Back?

If you are giving thought to "Can I win my ex girlfriend back?" then it wasn't a terribly gruesome break up in the first place, was it? That means that you think it can be saved. So the question then becomes, "What are you going to do?"

Why did you break up in the first place? Have you figured that out? It may be as simple as apologizing for something you did wrong. Keep this in mind, it could all just be a mistake. Someone saw you with your cousin when you took her out for her birthday or some other honest mistake. But then again, the wrong could be very real.

Maybe if I showed her I have a sensitive side? Can I win my ex girlfriend back that way?

You know her better than you think you do. You need to find that one little way of gaining her appreciation that is totally unique. Maybe it's not roses she likes but tulips. Write her a card instead of buying one. Make an honest effort and above all BE honest.

Maybe if I was more considerate of her? Can I win my ex girlfriend back like that?

Well... let's be honest. Were you considerate of her during the relationship? Did you do nice things for her? Buy her flowers, or candy, or cards? If you didn't, it would be a nice touch now but don't get your hopes up. Whatever you do, be honest.

Also, sometimes, just sometimes, less is more. Instead of buying a dozen roses, buy her one or three. Don't buy a card, write from YOUR heart. It doesn't have to be a poem, just how you feel. Women really have a tendency to go for those types of things. But again, don't get your hopes up. The hurt could a lot deeper than flowers and cards. Just be persistent.

She's moved on and has a new boyfriend. Can I win my ex girlfriend back still?

The truth is... it will be a lot more difficult for you if she's in another relationship. That doesn't mean you should give up. It just means you'll have to be patient, persistent, and realistic. MOST rebound relationships don't work.

So, if you show her how much you miss her, and how much she means to you, you show how thoughtful and considerate you are, give her some space, don't be a pest, there might be an opportunity for you to win your way back into her heart. But also, be realistic. When it's obvious she has moved on in her life, be honest with her about how you feel and wish her well.

Honesty will take you further than you think it will. So don't give up just yet if you're thinking, "Help - Can I win my ex girlfriend back?" There are those of us who think back and say, "Why did I ever let her get away?" Don't be one of those who didn't try, take a chance and you might just be surprised.

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