Heartbroken? Asking "How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?"

No doubt about it, if you've just been through a break up, then you are probably left feeling a little shaky right now, and you may be wondering "How do I get my ex boyfriend back?" Since every relationship is different, no answers will work in every situation. There are some things that do work in almost every situation.

Use your manners. (Be nice)

OK, ok, before you click away, I want you to know that I have seen many women fall into the pit of nagginess. Some people think that the more they nag, the more likely they will get what they want. Not true. Acting like a 7 year old (nagging, complaining, being unpleasant, will only make him back away - FAST. After all who likes to be around a nag?

Instead use the manners your mama taught you. Be polite, even if that is all that you can manage right now. It will save you a ton of heartache in the future. Also, if you can be pleasent than the problems that caused the break up will start to be forgotten. This will give you much better footing to start on with your ex.

Focus on what is in your control.

He may very well be at fault for at least part of the break up, but you can't control him (Do you really want a step ford guy anyway?). Focus on what is in your control. The one person you have control over is yourself. So what can you do to become more attractive, interesting, and engaging?

Sometimes a few simple changes in attitude and appearance can make all the difference. When your boyfriend sees the new improved you, he may very well come running back to you. Just don't change only for him, make the changes because they will make you a better person.

The answer to "How do I get my ex boyfriend back?" Doesn't have to be super complicated. In fact, sometimes it just takes a little common sense.