Guide to Spending Your ‘Me Time’ - Make Masturbation Elaborate and Worth Remembering

Masturbation has long been a sensitive topic, representing a source of guilt and shame, for most people. Sex experts consider masturbation to be basic to sexual development. But recent studies have shown that masturbation results in positive, emotional and physical health benefits; this idea is gradually gaining recognition. Now masturbation is considered to be the cornerstone of sexual health in men.

Most men, by virtue of their sex, are more confident about their genitals as well as their sexual response. But the truth is that most men are nowhere near experiencing their erotic and orgasmic potential in totality. A few simple and fun tips are mentioned below that will not only guide you through your masturbation but also help you enjoy your masturbatory experiences provided you are ready to enjoy every minute of it

Give yourself time to learn, feel and experience every single nuance during masturbation

Once you cross over from the secret and furtive ways of the past, you can actually start to enjoy your dates with masturbation, so much so that, each experience leaves you feeling better and satisfied. All you need to do is have plenty of time on your side so that you can truly feel every little flutter overtaking your body before the overwhelming release.

Look for sexual turn-ons with in yourself

While most men have sexual fantasies based on porn, many people in certain real situations have witnessed that these external sexual stimulants deprive you from finding you own sexual potential within yourself as well as distract you from experiencing what’s actually happening within your body. Masturbating without the external sexual stimulants will help you really focus on your inner sexual nuances.

Study your bodily changes during masturbation

Being in sync with your body during masturbation will help you pay attention to the various bodily changes that occur with arousal. You will notice:

- Changes in your breathing; it can become shallow and quick or slower and deeper
- Changes in your body; while you will experience orgasmic tension, you will also experience a sense of calm
- You will feel the blood soaring through your veins just before everything settles down with a mind-blowing orgasm
- Post-orgasm you will feel happy and calm

Learn endless ways of satisfying your sexual appetite - cut out the routine stuff

The most effective way of reaching an orgasm can be learnt and reused every time for an orgasm during masturbation. You must have rarely wavered from the functional approach to self pleasure. But sex offers a variety of means to the same end provided you take note of the endless selection of ways to satisfy your appetite. Simultaneously you can try and combine some of the following suggestions:

- Don’t get stuck in the rut, trying something new will give you newer experiences

Instead of using the same hand to masturbate every time, you can simply switch hands or use sex toys; variety is after all the spice of life! Though this may feel strange at first, it could be a good start to something new. All you need to do is sit back and enjoy the newness.

On the other hand, being satisfied using the same old up-down stroke to achieve an orgasm actually stops you from thinking outside the box. Once you open up, you might find dozens of other stroke movements, pressures and speeds that can bring about many different sensations and lead to different levels of orgasms.

While the penis head is most nerve-intensive, many men do have sensitive spots on their shaft that can also provide similar, intense pleasure while experimenting during masturbation.

Become experimental; use different positions from the usual to achieve the same end. If you’re used to masturbating lying down, you can try sitting, standing or kneeling to get a feel of the different positions encouraged by newer sensations.

- Become experimental - Explore other areas for that much needed sexual spark

Explore different hip movements that imitate the thrusting of intercourse when masturbating. It could help you get closer to the point of orgasm.

The testicles are very sensitive and generate a positive response to touch, pressure, tickling, scratching and rubbing. It can work as an effective tool that will either prevent you from ejaculating or extend sexual feelings to bring you to orgasm.

While there is no doubt that the penis and the scrotum are the epicentre of masturbatory attention, the areas around this region like the perineum and the area between the scrotum and the anus that are sensitive to pressure, massage and rubbing, can also be explored for enhanced sexual pleasure.

Trying lots of different things and incorporating them into your regular masturbatory routine will help you realize that there could be more hidden pleasures out there for you if you are open to experimenting with things.

Some positive tips that will add to your experience during masturbation:

- Don’t believe in the myth that you shouldn’t use anything other than you hand; adding some accessories can make the stimulation even more intense, and inspire more creativity.
- Use a good quality personal lubricant that is either oil-based or water-based so that it does not dry up easily.
- Sex toys like vibrators, anal toys or cock rings can definitely add zing to your routine.

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