Gothic Engagement Rings

The very word Gothic, brings to mind the dark, brooding world of magic and horror. Words now, mostly associated with its art and culture. The first person to coin this term was Raphael. Gothicism is full of symbols from the medieval times, eroticism imagery misunderstood as exoticism. Their symbols are mainly derived from the Pagan and Wicca cultures. Contrary to the popular belief, that Gothic culture is all about blood and gory, its central belief lies in the Wiccan tenant, 'An it bring harm to none, do what ye will.'

So go on, break away from the tradition, allow the Gothic mysticism to envelop your important day.

Gothic engagement rings are styled in two different ways, using imagery and symbols of the romantic aspect of the medieval times and romantic horror of the present day. The rings are usually made from silver metal, as they bring out the engraved designs. Metals such as black titanium or heavier tungsten are also used.

Gothic romance style borrow images from the nature, flowers, leaves; celtic designs, as the scroll; semi-precious and colored gemstones are used to enhance the designs. Whereas, the Gothic horror uses dark images of skulls, serpents, dragon and crosses. Poison boxes, rings with hidden compartments are considered as 'absolute Gothic'. If you decide, to design your own ring make sure you study the Gothic symbols and imagery well. Your ring can speak "louder" than your words.

There are many types of Gothic engagement rings available, some using very ancient designs, while some are contemporary. Most of the rings use the English pewter, a tin based alloy. The ring speaks for the people it betroths.

• Life and death band: Symbolizes the union of life and death and the words on the ring can be read both ways.
• Betrothal ring: This has a scroll work frame, symbolizing love and passion.
• Adder Bite ring: The name itself suggests the use a serpent symbol on the ring.
• Deus et natura ring: This ring symbolizes the harmony and relation between God and his creation.
• Holy land runeband: This red faceted crystal band use the ancient symbols of rune combined with Latin, meaning enlightenment and blood.
• Trefoil sanguis ring: This blood red enamel ring resembels a crown.
• Fangorian ring: The engravings are from the tribal Gothic 'Batesque' design.
• Hemlock poison ring: This black crystal stone ring has a hidden compartment.
• Agla ring: This ring has a Kabbalah theme to its design.

Having a wedding ring is not good enough, if you don't propose well. Add a zing of Gothicism, with the tips given here:

• All Gothic ceremonies are performed in the dark hours, midnight would be just perfect.
• Dress in black, to add to the adventure
• Have the place surrounded by fire; black candles or fire torches would also do.
• Arrange for some blood red roses.
• Write your own dark love poem or borrow from the famous literature works by the dark poet of the Gothic era.
• Since all Gothic rituals are intimate, keep yours private too.
• Let your imagination run wild, create that perfect drama and mystery.

Since, the Gothic culture is misunderstood and associated with dark arts, it would be difficult to find the ring. While some jewelers may have them, you can also check the on-line Realtor to source that 'right' ring. How expensive the ring should be, is entirely depended on your budget or as some say, 'your love'. Gothic rings as a part of Gothic culture, is highly complex, but rich in symbols, imagery and meanings, so understand them well before adapting them in your lifestyle.

And don't forget to go down on bended knees!
Happy proposing!