Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting with G

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. Don’t believe that there is a magic pick-up line, pill, potion, or perfume that will make it happen immediately, if not sooner. But we do believe that our articles can make a major difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that’s what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don’t miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don’t waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when what you really want; we all know what you really want. This article focuses on generous, glamour, and grow.

G is for generous. I’m not talking here about the personal ads that read something like Gorgeous young lady seeks generous gentleman friend. Or the less common Gorgeous young man seeks generous gentlewoman friend. I don’t actually recall seeing the second type of ad, but maybe I’m looking in the wrong places. If you want to go places sexually you should be generous with your money, but also your time, and concern for your partner. Unless you are in the impoverished student mode, try to steer away from the Burger joints for a big night out. You don’t need to order champagne on every date, but a fine wine can help set the mood. On the other hand, don’t look at such expenditure as a guarantee of a cuddly evening. If the wine is off you may be able to return it. But if your evening is off don’t blame the wine. Why am I focusing on wine? A fine bottle, bubbly or not, even when accompanied by an excellent meal pales in cost to jewelry or clothing. And furthermore, it seems less invasive, less of a what-do-you-mean-by-that-kind-of-gift gift.

G is for glamor. This isn’t just for the gals. Dress a bit special for that special evening. Accessorize. Clothe yourself like you are really going to have a good time. And maybe you will. But don’t mix and match. If it’s Big Mac night don’t wear anything too fancy. You don’t want ketchup on your tuxedo.

G is for grow. I’m not talking about the growth of certain, selected areas at certain, selected times. I mean grow during the relationship, even if it’s not one of these long-term, heavy commitment type of things. You should have something additional to offer at each meeting. A major growth area should be in understanding your partner. And remember, part of growth is growing up. Don’t be infantile and expect to get anywhere. Have you ever heard of tantrum sex?