Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting with E

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. Don’t believe that there is a magic pick-up line, pill, potion, or perfume that will make it happen immediately, if not sooner. But we do believe that our articles can make a major difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that’s what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don’t miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don’t waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when what you really want; we all know what you really want. This article focuses on enigmatic, erotic, and explore.

E is for enigmatic. Be enigmatic. Be a mystery man or a mystery woman. You don’t have to reveal all your secrets on your first meeting, your first date, or your first romp. Let people work at finding out what really makes you tick. And what really makes you tock. Mona Lisa has an enigmatic smile and people are still lining up just to take a look at her. Imagine if she were still out there; just think how her I-phone would be ringing off the hook. I can just see guys bragging in the locker room. Yes, maybe you slept with her. But I found out who the real Mona Lisa is, I know why she’s smiling.

E is for erotic. If you are reading an article in the sex section of some websites (or any section of many, many websites) you know what erotic means, big… And giant… Is that really what erotic means? Yes, in part. Eros was the Greek god of love and they weren’t talking about the kind of knightly love where this idiot (because that’s what he really is) spends all his time writing poems and never, ever trying to open her chastity belt. Erotic is like loving. But we want sex, sex without chains, especially the "I love you eternally and will never look at anyone else" kind of chains. Come on. You can do it. Mix three parts of sex and two parts of love. Or was it two parts of sex and three parts of love? Clinical sex can be fun. But erotic sex, the kind where you love the moment and don’t necessarily promise to be together when you are old and gray, can be fun too. Love what you are doing. "Love" your partner. Just don’t make any false promises.

E is for explore. I don’t just mean like in the kid’s song, "Lady of Spain I adore you. Pull down your pants I’ll explore you." Although that’s good too. Explore each other’s true person, who they are, what makes them tick, as well as how best to achieve mutual orgasm. People in sexual relationships tend to open up to each other. Take advantage, by that I mean, find out who they really are. Get closer to them. It doesn’t have to last forever. But the closer you are after the huffing and puffing has ceased, the better chance for another round. And, if you ask me, the greater the pleasure.