Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With D

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. Don’t believe that there is a magic pick-up line, pill, potion, or perfume that will make it happen immediately, if not sooner. But we do believe that our articles can make a major difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that’s what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don’t miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don’t waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when what you really want; we all know what you really want. This article focuses on dare, different, and dynamic.

D is for dare. Did you ever meet anyone who seemed interested and your reaction was why should I bother, he or she is too good for me? I could never get anywhere with him or her. If your answer to the above question is no, you may head straight to the following paragraph. (If you never meet anyone who seems interested you should get out more, but before you do, take a look at our articles.) Dare to succeed. Go for it. I’m not talking about an obvious mismatch such as robbing the cradle. If someone shows an interest make sure to fan and not douse the flames. Just remember, no matter how great they look and seem, they put their pants on one leg at a time. And if you do your stuff the way you should, you’ll find out how they take off their pants.

D is for different. Don’t be a carbon copy of his or her former lover. Be yourself, and hopefully you will be different from those in your partner’s past. Use your imagination and don’t restrict your dates to the old standard, movies, restaurant, and the bedroom. In any city there are a million places to go, and the woods has its own, special attractions. Don’t suggest butterfly catching if she doesn’t seem the type, certainly not before you get to know her better. And once you are together make sure to try different things. I’m not suggesting using a butterfly net, but a haystack can be tempting.

D is for dynamic. Show that no grass grows under your feet. When your prospective partner displays vigor and energy in non-romantic situations one naturally assumes that such dynamism may eventually be available for bedroom encounters. The more you yawn, the less chance that you’ll be spending sack time together. Dynamism is not only physical; it’s also mental. Show your prospective partner that you are on the ball and you may get a chance to round the bases.