Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With C

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. Don’t believe that there is a magic pick-up line, pill, potion, or perfume that will make it happen immediately, if not sooner. But we do believe that our articles can make a major difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that’s what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don’t miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don’t waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when what you really want; we all know what you really want. We present a double series of articles for the letter C.

C is for communicate. Virtually anyone will tell you that communicating is a major aspect for any relationship, whether intimate or not. In fact we have chosen to highlight this word in our series on relationships as well. Communicating in sexual relationships is a lot more than simply saying, "Harder and a bit to the right, or softer and a bit to the left, or YES, YES, YES." Not, that such information is unimportant. Communicating could also be "Not tonight, I have one of those famous headaches." Or it could also be, "Let’s get to know each other better." Or it could even be looking straight in each other’s eyes and not having to say a single word.

C is for challenge. I don’t just mean attempting to put another notch on your belt, if that’s what you are in to. Or, for the less ambitious (or from another point of view, the more ambitious) adding another phone number or email address to your little black book. You should also challenge yourself to improve your existing intimate relations. This could mean going for the Guiness Book of Records. Or it could mean enjoying each other’s presence more and more, both horizontally and vertically. In other words, it could mean getting to know her or him better. Isn’t that more fulfilling than a headache?