Fun Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

If you're caught in a situation where your girlfriend is demanding you to ask her some fun questions, or simply find yourself unable to sweep her off her feet with your dazzling brilliance, then here are some fun questions to ask your girlfriend.
Fun Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend
When you're in the phase of getting to know each other, at the start of a relationship, there are many things that you won't know about your girlfriend. This can work in your favor, or against you, depending on the way you look at it. You need to make the most of this situation, and get to know your girlfriend inside out. One of the ways to achieve this, is through constant questioning. Be random and imaginative in your approach, and forget all conditions of normality. Be warned though, that there is a fine line between being abstract, and being perverted. Tread that line with caution.

Being stuck in the middle of a conversation, with nothing to say, is not a very pleasant scenario for most, as they may end up feeling completely undermined and foolish. To avoid facing such an occurrence, and other relationship issues, you have to do your homework, and you have to do it right. If you're thinking of fun questions to ask your girlfriend, you need to be spontaneous, and not sound like a prerecorded android that has downloaded an extensive list of conversation starters in its head, the night before. Be creative, and ask questions whose answers genuinely display your girlfriend's characteristics. Read more good questions to ask your girlfriend.

Follow this broad generalization of fun questions to ask your girlfriend.

Ask About Her
It goes without saying, that the source of principal happiness for any woman is realized when she talks about herself. This acts as a great conversation starter. Once you set the ball rolling, watch how the field opens up for you to throw more fun questions in her direction. You could start by asking something very simple like "What is your worst nightmare?", or you could adopt a different approach, and ask her something like "As a child, what did you want to become when you grew up?". Read some more questions to ask a girl.

The key to a healthy relationship, is to know each other inside out. Ask her about her siblings, her childhood memories, her fears, things she's passionate about, her embarrassing moments; the list is endless. Keep in mind, that she wants you to be interested in her thoughts and feelings, but at the same time, not be judgmental about them. Pass a judgment only on rare occasions, because by doing so, you're running a very high risk of being faced by an endless barrage of verbal assault, along with an unlimited supply of scorn-filled glances.

Ask About Yourself
Another approach you can take, is to ask her questions pertinent to you, and your role in her life. Maybe you could ask her what her first impression of you was, or you can conjure up some hypothetical scenarios, and ask her how she would react if you ended up behaving in a certain way, or saying certain things. You could even go ahead and ask her where she sees your relationship heading. But such questions usually result in a very sombre and serious tone. Do not ask her if she feels that you have some habits which she wishes to change, as you may not like what you'll hear subsequently.

Ask About Her Friends
You could begin by asking her "What is the craziest thing you've ever done with your friends?" or you could even ask her who her closest friends are, and what she likes the most about them. Talk about what kind of rapport she wants you and her friends to share, but do not get over inquisitive about her friends, as it will annoy her. Be cautious in your approach, and do not get carried away, and ramble on with question after question, and sound like a game show host.

Place the interesting questions to ask your girlfriend in one of these categories, and think them over in your head before you go ahead and actually ask them. Over a period of time, you'll know how to ask genuinely intellectual questions that are fun to answer and help you to get to know her better. Read more on relationship advice. Here is a list of other fun questions to ask your girlfriend.
  • Which nickname did you hate the most when you were a child?
  • Who was your favorite cartoon character as a child?
  • Which is your favorite curse word?
  • If you were to be marooned on an island with one person of your choice, who would it be?
  • Do you pick your nose and rub it on the couch when no one is looking?
  • What's the worst habit that you feel you have?
  • If you could be anywhere in the world right this instant, where would you be?
  • Can you see dead people?
  • If you could have any superpower you wish, what would it be?
  • Which actor do you think is the most good looking?
  • If that actor and your best friend were hanging over a cliff, and you could save only one of them, who would you save?
  • Would you rather live in the mountains, or by the sea?
  • What's the dumbest question you've ever been asked?
  • Have you ever thrown up on somebody else?
  • If you're having a miserable day and need to vent it out, whom do you call?
These are just a few general fun questions to ask your girlfriend. The possibilities of interesting questions to ask your girlfriend are endless, and you could use your imagination and come up with a lot more fun questions. Remember not to cross the line though, and don't ask questions that are just plain juvenile and sadistic.

By Rahul Thadani
Published: 9/24/2009
 
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