Flirting Signs

Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again? ~ Unknown

This quote is probably one of the best flirting quotes used by women and men. People as well as studies say flirting is an art. You have to master it, understand it and then use it for the most attractive face you see. Flirting is a harmless yet sometimes very cheesy technique to impress someone. It normally works on 90% of the crowd, but 10% are of the other kind. Understanding these signs are as important as flirting with someone.

Flirting Signs from Women

Some of the below given signs can also be gestures of friendliness on a woman's part. So don't come to a conclusion there and then, understand and then go ahead. This doesn't mean be a vigilance officer. Keep cool, relax and enjoy the special time that both of you share.

She keeps Glancing Over: Is she constantly looking at you and she turns the other side when you catch her staring? Then you might have a chance here. If she stares at you in bits and pieces, then she is shy and needs a little effort from your side. Go up to her, introduce yourself and get her talking.

She gives you a Compliment: Women are too miser with compliments, so if she gives you one you can feel good about the evening. This can be quite beneficial for you, if the compliment is for your physique, as this indicates that she is attracted to you.

Asking about your Hobbies: Does she takes an interest in your hobbies? Is she more specific on asking on what do you do and what you don't? She is not asking you for a date, but she is judging you on whether she would have fun going out with you? She could ask you out directly, or is waiting for you to pop the question, but if the conversation is about your hobbies and interests, then ask her out.

She Touches You: When a woman touches you while breaking a conversation, it's a sure flirting sign. She can touch your arm and knee many times during the conversation. But be sure she makes the first skin contact.

Sexual Comments: Some women are too comfortable to talk about sex and things that entice them. So if she starts a conversation about sexual topics, then that could have a bright chance of a good foreplay or if you are more lucky, one awesome night. Women will always keep the conversation understated and tasteful, always follow their lead.

Flirting Signs from Men

Not everything a guy does can be termed flirting. This makes it very confusing when he actually is trying to flirt. So how to understand signs he's flirting. The only golden rule is observation.

The way he Looks at You: This is probably the most easiest sign to catch. If he is interested in you, a single glance is not enough. He will glance longer than normal and then turn away when you notice. Always notice the movement of his eyes, they start from your eyes, then lips, then face and then your complete body and then he back to your eyes.

Lift his Eyebrows: Whenever men lift their eyebrows, it's a signal that he is interested in you and your talk. If he is sitting across the room and you are exchanging glances, then raising his eyebrows is a sign that he wants to talk with you.

Adjusts his Clothes: Watch and see if he adjusts his clothes and performs a sudden ironing session. His hands will adjust his shirt and jeans to smooth out his wrinkles. If he is wearing a shirt, suit or a tie, then he will adjust those as well.

Checks his Face and Hair: A classic men flirting sign is when he adjusts his hair and touches his face. Men do it as a nervous gesture, because they want to look perfect in front of you.

Sits Closer to You: Nothing gets your attention like someone moving close or standing next to you. When he comes close to you, he has a belief that he is attracted to you. He now wants to know you more.

Flirting Signs at Work

Long working hours in the night and day time have given rise to flirting at work. Young and married women and men spend most of their time working in offices, hence it is obvious that some amount of intimacy will develop. Initially it seems like friendship, leads to dating and this casual dating might lead to a long-term relationship. It's not a big deal any more if a male colleague cracks an offensive joke or incident in front of female colleagues. A casual hug or wink are classic signs of flirting at work. While you are enjoying flirting at your workplace always take care that you are being watched by someone. You have to be very careful about flirting signs and gestures that you send. Don't be too over dramatic, be simple and plain while sending a flirtatious message.

I hope this article on flirting signs proves useful to you. If you want to add some of your own discoveries, please leave your suggestions.