Flirting Body Language of Women

Flirting, is an art. Understanding flirting..now that's a science. The flirting body language of women is one that all claim to know. But, truth is, few truly know women's flirting body language! Read on as I guide you into knowing the best kept women's secrets of female flirting body language.
Flirting Body Language of Women
Firstly, I am not being a tattle tale. Yes, I will be divulging some pretty amazing "flirting body language of women" secrets here. But, lets face it, keeping shut about them ain't in my feminine gene, right? Well, not really. After seeing several of my friends frustrated because "guys just don't get it!", I decided, why not tell the men what we mean? This is for "the greater good"! So men, read on attentively as I give out secrets to women's flirting body language. Women, you can enlighten yourself further by checking out these flirting tips for girls.

First things first, if you think that a woman, any woman, doesn't flirt, you are highly mistaken. Flirting is natural. It is an act that one can't help but perform. So, keep a keen eye out for these cues of body language in flirting. They don't guarantee that the woman likes you or is in love with you, but it surely guarantees that she is interested.

Female Flirting Body Language
Flirting and body language go hand in hand, for both men and women. However, their impact and intensity is higher for women than men. Let us see a few signs of flirting.
  • First, she will cross her legs and sit. This brings attention to the fact that she is feminine. More so, it brings attention to her legs, which look sleeker when in this position.
  • Hair flipping and playing with her hair is another classic sign. Most women are not even aware that they are engaging in this act. The woman will play with her hair to bring attention to her, as well as seem more feminine.
  • Another important sign is that she will move her hair away from her shoulders and neck from one side. This exposes her skin, which is very smooth in these parts. This is very attractive to men, and they often feel the urge to "feel" the skin
  • A very powerful flirting technique that women (only the few who know how to use it) use. They look into the man's eyes while talking to him. This shows him that she is interested in the conversation and that she is confident. This is a general method to show confidence (which is very important while flirting) and works wonders in flirting.
  • Another technique that forms a part of flirting body language women use, is playing with a round object that may be in her hand or on the table. Classic object used is a glass. This is another cue that women send out without (mostly) being aware of it. This puts the idea in the man's head that she is interested and interesting.
  • Another flirting body language cue is if the woman runs her palm on her neck gently. This has a very tantalizing effect on men. More so, it makes the women show that she is gentle and can be protected.
  • Another flirting technique using body language is when the woman gets touchy. If she keeps touching or stroking your arm during conversation. This is a good sign. She is definitely trying to flirt.
  • A very easily ignored flirting body language cue is if the woman keeps moistening her lips. Women like to have perfect lips and draw attention to them. They will always try to know how to have perfect lips. So, when flirting, women often make sure that either they have lip gloss on, or they will lick their lips often
All of these flirting body language cues are not 100% fool-proof. Not all women will concur with the same body language, they could perform the actions for other reasons, similarly, they could use some other techniques or methods of flirting body language when they are trying to flirt. So, before you jump to a conclusion, make sure you're sure of the consequences after you make use of the above list as flirting tips of sorts. Above everything else, enjoy the attention and reciprocate! This is where I sign off! Take care and beware!

By Rashida Khilawala
Published: 10/21/2009
 
Use the feedback form below to submit your comments.
Your Comments:
Your Name:
Use the form below to email this article to your friends.
Recipient Email Address:
 Separate multiple email addresses by ;
Your Name:
Your Email Address: