Falling in Love With Your Best Friend

You are one of the best things that's ever happened to me. You're my love and my best friend. And every day that goes by, it seems like I discover something new about your love for me. You touch my heart in a way I never knew before. I discover something new about you everyday. It's incredible to me how one person can make such a big difference in my life.

There is no set formula for falling in love. You just do. Often times, you will find people say, that falling in love with your best friend will ruin your friendship. Seriously, this lot knows nothing about love. Look at Chandler and Monica. They were the best of friends and the best of lovers, to be in love forever and forever.

Know it Well
Being in love may be many things, but it's definitely not a fool's play. For some it's a mere infatuation, which fades away with time. If you really see your future with your best friend, you need to know if you are in love with him/her or is it just some juvenile attraction. Know your feeling well, by analyzing your thoughts, emotions and actions towards your best friend.

Find Out
You may have all the love in the world for this person. But what about the love in return? To take the existing relationship to the next stage, you need to find out what does your best friend feel about you. Flirting tips and tricks are the best way of finding this out. If your best friend responds to your flirtations, then it is a sure sign of interest. Also, your best friend, walks the extra mile in whatever little way and is supremely concerned about you, which is the next best thing to heaven.

Understanding Needs
Falling in love is a lot easier than being in love with your best friend. For the two to cohere, it is important that you first understand the difference. We often take our best friends for granted in a lot of ways. Between the best of friends, a lot of things go unsaid and unnoticed, forgiveness is easy amongst best friends and the bond is way stronger than any other relationship. That's the reason why the old adage, 'friends are forever', holds true for every human on this planet. However, with an added romantic angle you need to view each other with a slight difference. Romantic needs, such as physical intimacy, attention and romance will be overwhelming. If you want a future, you need to understand, that there has to be a clear communication, honestly, accountability and responsibility towards each other, more than ever. So, if that is handled maturely, with time, everything else will, definitely, fall into place.

At the end of it all, what matters is, what makes you happy. Even if your best friend, does not feel the same, be honest and convey your feelings to your friend. Sometimes, a person's feelings can change, after knowing the situation in its full truth. As I conclude, I would like to say, I know, you can't help being in love with your best friend, since that's the person, you've always known the best. Love, actually!