Failure (Best Tutor One can Ever Get)
Everyone has encountered this in his/her life , My suggestions and learning how to get over it. Enjoy ................................
Failure is the process which everyone of us has experienced several times in our lives. You can say almost 60 % times when you do something you get taste of failure and 40% you succeed.. Does this mean Failure is important than Success Answer would vary to this Question but still importance of Failure cannot be denied from Life.
Let us understand what Failure exactly is: Failure is not able to get desired result out of anything It can be small child learning Cycle who fells or Lad giving exam and failing in it or Someone being ditched by his/her partner, Old person fighting for life who finally who loses the Battle. All these example shows characters from Different age group which means Failure is with us all the time from the time we are Born till we Die.
Now I will brief how generally people take failure or on most occasions what an obvious reaction to failure is, People when they fail at something they just Cry or say its my Badluck or I worked very hard but still failed. We all are like this sometimes and its Common amongst Humans. There are people who say I failed at it so it is not suitable for me so I shouldn't continue but did this person made worthy efforts this Question remains unanswered. Also there are people who Commit Suicide if they fail I think this is the most Cowardly thing which one can do and not only you damage your Life it hampers all associated to you.
The best part is here HOW TO TAKE FAILURE this I will explain with few examples :
All of us have encountered failure as a child when we tried to walk, all of us fell several times but did we left walking NO and that is the reason all of us can walk and Run.
So important point here is Determination. There is famous Quote about this by A Lincoln Your resolve to succeed is the most important factor to your success.
Also there is a personal example which I would like to give. Once I was going on the Highway and I saw a Bull who was Hit by a Car. His whole Pelvic was torn and a lot of blood as rushing out. I and a few chaps got Down to help the Bull. We stopped traffic, then with help of Public we were trying to Lift the Bull. Here the Bull himself made effort to get up in spite of so much Damage to his abdomen without a Sound and due to this we were able to take him to the Vet, who finally agreed about the strength animals have mentally as well as physically. Tell me how many Humans when hit by Car would try to get up without shouting like a Freak?
So Animals teach us Patience and Killer Instinct to fight back the adversities. Motivation this is the factor which keeps everyone who wants to succeed going and his is major factor between your Dreams and achievements. So see and try where you get your Motivation from Songs, wallpapers, Quotes and Poems(I guess are Best). Do all this and definitely you would be sailing well in hard times.
Summary of all this would be factors which are needed to overcome failure are Determination, Patience, Killer Instinct, Motivation. Keep in mind that all these are interrelated and Success can be achieved only by combining all of these together.
Though it has been said that for Success it required 90% Hard work and 10% Luck I believe you do 90% Hard work and 10% Luck almighty will provide you and If you fail here then think that you are being tested for the Best thing to happen.
Alas Go through O G madino's Poem "I WILL WIN" which surely motivates Generations and few Quotes below which keep motivating me every time :
Courage is not absence of fear but the judgment that something else is more important then fear.
Leadership is not about position but action.
A ship is a harbor is safe but that is not what ships are built for!
Real test of man is not at his comfort but at Adversities.
Giving up!!! That's the easiest thing in world to do But to Stand when everything around you shatters requires real strength.
To explore new oceans you should have courage to loose sight of shore.
Dream big and built castles in your dreams But ensure you built foundations to them in reality.
You risk to loose everything you have to gain everything you can.
If you have to make sacrifices, so be it. If it's your dream and you're not willing to make sacrifices, it's not really your dream."
If you are not living on the edge you are taking up too much space.
Do let me know your suggestions /thoughts if this at all motivated you also share how you countered your failures.
Regards,
Delta
deltaviru@rediff.com
Let us understand what Failure exactly is: Failure is not able to get desired result out of anything It can be small child learning Cycle who fells or Lad giving exam and failing in it or Someone being ditched by his/her partner, Old person fighting for life who finally who loses the Battle. All these example shows characters from Different age group which means Failure is with us all the time from the time we are Born till we Die.
Now I will brief how generally people take failure or on most occasions what an obvious reaction to failure is, People when they fail at something they just Cry or say its my Badluck or I worked very hard but still failed. We all are like this sometimes and its Common amongst Humans. There are people who say I failed at it so it is not suitable for me so I shouldn't continue but did this person made worthy efforts this Question remains unanswered. Also there are people who Commit Suicide if they fail I think this is the most Cowardly thing which one can do and not only you damage your Life it hampers all associated to you.
The best part is here HOW TO TAKE FAILURE this I will explain with few examples :
All of us have encountered failure as a child when we tried to walk, all of us fell several times but did we left walking NO and that is the reason all of us can walk and Run.
So important point here is Determination. There is famous Quote about this by A Lincoln Your resolve to succeed is the most important factor to your success.
Also there is a personal example which I would like to give. Once I was going on the Highway and I saw a Bull who was Hit by a Car. His whole Pelvic was torn and a lot of blood as rushing out. I and a few chaps got Down to help the Bull. We stopped traffic, then with help of Public we were trying to Lift the Bull. Here the Bull himself made effort to get up in spite of so much Damage to his abdomen without a Sound and due to this we were able to take him to the Vet, who finally agreed about the strength animals have mentally as well as physically. Tell me how many Humans when hit by Car would try to get up without shouting like a Freak?
So Animals teach us Patience and Killer Instinct to fight back the adversities. Motivation this is the factor which keeps everyone who wants to succeed going and his is major factor between your Dreams and achievements. So see and try where you get your Motivation from Songs, wallpapers, Quotes and Poems(I guess are Best). Do all this and definitely you would be sailing well in hard times.
Summary of all this would be factors which are needed to overcome failure are Determination, Patience, Killer Instinct, Motivation. Keep in mind that all these are interrelated and Success can be achieved only by combining all of these together.
Though it has been said that for Success it required 90% Hard work and 10% Luck I believe you do 90% Hard work and 10% Luck almighty will provide you and If you fail here then think that you are being tested for the Best thing to happen.
Alas Go through O G madino's Poem "I WILL WIN" which surely motivates Generations and few Quotes below which keep motivating me every time :
Courage is not absence of fear but the judgment that something else is more important then fear.
Leadership is not about position but action.
A ship is a harbor is safe but that is not what ships are built for!
Real test of man is not at his comfort but at Adversities.
Giving up!!! That's the easiest thing in world to do But to Stand when everything around you shatters requires real strength.
To explore new oceans you should have courage to loose sight of shore.
Dream big and built castles in your dreams But ensure you built foundations to them in reality.
You risk to loose everything you have to gain everything you can.
If you have to make sacrifices, so be it. If it's your dream and you're not willing to make sacrifices, it's not really your dream."
If you are not living on the edge you are taking up too much space.
Do let me know your suggestions /thoughts if this at all motivated you also share how you countered your failures.
Regards,
Delta
deltaviru@rediff.com
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