Dogging and public sex do’s and don’ts

Get the inside into the local uk dogging scene by reading our tips for amateur doggers and adults who are new to the public sex scene. Like everything else in life dogging also has a specific etiquette that uk doggers follow. Just because adults are participating in public sex does not mean that they can go wild and not adhere to a certain social behavior. This article will outline thebasic do’s and don’ts expected of a dogger and serve as a guide to newbies of the dogging scene, providing helpful hints that will make them comfortable in no time.

Dogging usually takes place in the open air, countryside, carparks or even picnic spots. Because dogging spots are sometimes public places where families like to hang out during the day, there are very strict rules that accompanies this lifestyle. One of them is to respect the environment and your neighbor at all times. Don’t litter, clean up after yourself and don’t do anything reckless inside or outside of your car. This behavior also counts for voyeurs, people or mostly single men who like to watch other couples having sex in public places. Never block your fellow spectators view by standing in front of them or blocking them with your car.

Always COME prepared

It’s best to prepare yourself before going to a dogging spot. Things that come in handy are wet wipes, deodorant, tissues, mouth wash, KY jelly, disposable gloves, packets of condoms (always share with other doggers) and a blanket or warm jacket.

Being hygienic, looking clean and smelling nice is also very helpful as other couples won’t invite you to join in on the action if you don’t come across as clean.

Less is more and when it comes to dressing up, or in this case down, for public sex. If you are a female you can save time by wearing a short skirt with no underwear and a top with a zip. If you are going to be frolicking around outside your car then wear comfortable shoes or boots and don’t try high heels or even consider going barefoot. (You don’t want to be stepping in any thorns). Dressing appropriately will not only make you feel comfortable but also increase the fun for everyone.

Public Sex - Rather safe than sorry

When meeting other contacts online on an adult website don’t post the information about your next meeting on a forum for everyone to see. Rather get the interested parties to email you and then you can tell them the specific time and location. Personal safety is very important and it helps to use a swingers name and even set up a swingers email address to make contact with other adults. Put your personal belongings like your wallet and cellphone away in the glove box, don’t just leave it lying around on the car seat. Be careful not to take security to your head and lock yourself out of your car. This happened to a couple in the uk that found themselves stalkers at a popular picnic spot. It took two other voyagers to help them break their car window.

Flash – the right people

At a dinner party you don’t insult your host or other guests and the same rule applies for doggers. When you arrive at a dogging area you need to give clear signals to other adults if you want them to watch or join in on the fun. Voyagers also can’t just sneak up on couples as they might just be normal people looking for fresh air. It is also rude for them to yell at a couple to give them some action. It is best for voyagers and couples wanting to have public sex to read the signs to see if they are welcome.

Flashing headlights or leaving the inside light on a car is a good indication that voyagers are welcome. Even better is a rolled down window or open car door inviting everyone to get closer and maybe even experience some of the action. Remember that yes means yes and no means no. Dogging couples shouldn’t be afraid to tell single men to back off if they start to feel uncomfortable.

The most important rule about dogging is to enjoy yourself. Know your limits, try new things if you feel like it, respect others and end the evening with a bang and then go home. Who knows maybe these tips inspired you to be part of the main act instead of just watching from the sidelines.

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