Dating Tips for Guys

If you're single, dating is fun, enthralling and a test of your nerves! Yeah, you have to go through all types of emotions, chief being the dilemma of making a right decision in choosing the right partner. But then, dating in essence is meant to understand the other person. So why worry? Right from your first date to third date or to say, fourth, fifth, sixth and nth dates, you'll be able to understand the other person. You'll have sufficient time to know her! Relax about this whole process called dating and enjoy the experience. I have given you one of the secrets of dating, so relax and enjoy! Don't be serious, be sincere!

The 8 Commandments of Dating for Guys

Basics are always important in life. Be it mathematics or dating, if you're thorough with your basics, you have already made a good platform. I present before you 8 commandments from my dating Bible that will help you to impress her and she will fall in your arms!! (at least, hope for that to happen :-)

Thou Shalt be Proactive
First impression is the last impression. Period. You may not get a second chance to impress her. Now, impressing doesn't mean that you'll come in luxury sedan - if you have it, then surely it is impressive :-) - be dressed in Giorgio Armani outfits and have looks to die to for! What I mean to say is that be comfortably dressed, wear a mild perfume and don't appear unshaven. Take a shower, have your hair nicely trimmed and appear like a human being! And don't wear the sexiest outfit you have (especially, if it's the first date!). It's a killer. Save them for future. You'll need them in future and not during first few dates. Focus on your dressing style and be comfortable in your clothing choice because it will reflect that you're at ease with yourself, not trying to overdo fashion. Being proactive at the right time is also one of the most important attributes to attract her attention. So, when the time is right, be ready to act, say and do the right thing.

Thou Shalt Respect Time
One of the most common complains of girls is that guys never show up on time. If you do this on your initial dates date, then you may not be forgiven for it. It's disastrous to come late (unless due to some urgency). Hence, ensure you reach on time to meet her.

Thou Shalt Be Positive
The world is bad. I know it. You know it. She knows it. Media brags about it every time. But don't talk about it during dates (at least there, you can avoid it, please). Guys, you have to make the date very interesting and enjoyable. Don't start your conversation with something that follows complains, disappointment, frustration and makes you both feel bad. Don't be negative or complain or crib too much. Create positivity. Now this doesn't mean that if your natural conversation progress towards something like politics, you appear dumb and with no opinions. Don't appear to her the next extremist leader of the nation. Why would you anyway talk about anything negative during your date. Be happy with her, discuss simple pleasures of life, try to know her more closely. Most importantly, LISTEN to her.

Thou Shalt be Honest
Difficult as it seems, the easiest it is. Be frank, honest and upfront. Don't say a 'Yes' or 'No', just to impress her. She is anyway a lady and her intuition is far better than yours. And unless you're not Casanova, your lies will sooner or later surface, making you feel embarrassed. Honesty is the best policy. Do I need to say more?

Thou Shalt be Creative
You have booked two movie tickets and then two tickets for an amusement park and later for a concert and so on. Wonderful creative dating ideas but also stupidity at its peak! Guys, at his phase of dating, your sole aim is to talk to her, listen to her and understand her. Don't get yourself busy in hell lot of activities that makes you feel lost at the end of the evening. Schedule a dinner, go to a coffee shop where you can sit, relax and talk. Save all activities for subsequent dates. Believe me, sitting in the background of a beautiful coffee shop or a book store, with relaxed surroundings and understanding your prospective partner is far better initially than getting involved in cacophony of movies and loads of activities.

Thou Shalt Not be Dying-to-Date
Ever heard this quote, 'If you love something, set it free, if it comes back, its yours if not, it was never meant to be yours'. Some optimistic part of my existence believes in this quote, to the core. I have even tried it. If you're miserably attempting to remain involved in a relationship, it drains your energy and makes you feel sad. That is not an ideal state to live your life. So let your love free! You're just dating and you can't say anything before you have dated for a considerable time. Give time. Keep yourself busy in work. Don't make it your 24×7 routine. The world has many significant things to offer you other than dating, do follow them also. Desperation is good but in excess it is bad.

Thou Shalt Compliment
Complimenting your date is one of the greatest dating tips for guys. Be original and say what you really feel. Again, I would say, don't directly say if she is not looking great in some dress. Being frank doesn't mean being stupid. There is a way to tell her about her looks, be it positive or negative. Be smart in your expression.

Thou Shalt Not Do These
I can't emphasis more on following must-not-do things at dates. You can memorize the following rules and you must never break them at anytime.

• Don't discuss sex in the initial meetings (unless she and you, both are exactly dating for that only (are you?) or in case she herself directly introduces sex (lucky you). Avoid it till the right time. Virtues of patience are sweet and you may be rewarded sooner or later.
• Give her undivided attention. Don't check out other girls in the surroundings. She may not find it a great gesture.
• Don't lie. Period.
• Don't be too strong or very anxious. She may feel intimidated.
• Don't divulge all information about your existence in the first few dates. Keep your home address (at least) confidential till you don't know her properly.
• Don't appear rude or impolite. Male chivalry is preferred by women

These are some simple tips for guys to woo their dates. Those who're willing to walk the extra mile and find potential dates online must exercise safety measures. Since it is difficult to track a person online, men looking for partners on the web must make sure they are not divulging many details about themselves to the potential date. Also, speed dating has become very popular these days but the bottom line is again to be careful and watch out for security issues. Online dating although a popular phenomena, may not work for everyone especially those who're easily wooed and impressed. It is always great to meet the person, schedule a couple of dates and then proceed in the relationship. Use the tips we have given you here and impress her!