Break Up SMS - Break Up Text Messages

Break up SMS may be the latest thing doing the rounds in relationships but is this really the right way to end a relationship? Here’s a look at the flip side of SMS break up and why text messages may not really be the ideal way to call the shots in ending a relationship.
Break Up SMS - Break Up Text Messages
"It only takes a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone & a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone."
- Unknown

‘It only takes a minute girl, to fall in love!’ was well said by the English pop group – ‘Take That’. Falling in love is really very easy but the testing time begins when you really wish to cherish this relationship forever. Of course, almost everybody falls in love with the hope of being with the person for a long period of time, but once the initial euphoria fades away and reality sinks in, this same relationship may seem a burden.

While dating someone, one may send innumerable love messages via SMS, chats, emails and even flowers and cards. Everybody wants to try something innovative while proclaiming his/her love for that special someone. If falling in love seems real easy, break-ups are equally difficult. You wish to end the relation without really hurting the person, yet, you know it will hurt deeply the moment you express this feeling. You might be breaking up for various reasons, you may not really find your partner as appealing as before or he/she might not be really true to you. Whatever the reason, break ups sure are difficult and you need to go about this carefully. Once you have made up your mind, you need to decide how this message would be put across.

The latest trends that are practiced by youngsters around the world are break up text messages. Well, many feel, if love can be expressed through soppy text messages, then, break-up SMSs are an excellent way to split! Break up SMSs are doing the rounds because one can get the message across in a single line without having to go through a long process of explanation. Many young girls and men use break up SMSs as a way of getting equal with their partner, who may have hurt the person in more than one way. SMS break-ups give people the chance of saying a lot, without really facing the person. But, is this method the right way to go about it? Isn’t this the same person you loved a few months back? Well, how you break up is entirely a personal choice although many would not agree with break-up SMSs.

Are Break Up Text Messages an Act of Cowardice?
Dumping someone is really not that easy when both the partners have been involved in the relationship for a long period of time. By sending a break up SMS, one may just cause more harm and hurt the feelings of others. Sensitive boyfriends/girlfriends would really feel offended receiving a break-up SMS. If they are informed and explained personally, things may at least not take an ugly turn. You cannot avoid hurting the person, it’s bound to happen both ways, but you must always remember to respect the feelings of your partner and convey the message clearly keeping in mind the sentiments of the other person.

On the other hand, a break-up SMS would prove to be a boon for those who have abusive partners. All you need to do is type out the message and hit the ‘send’ key and forget all your worries! This will save you the hassle of repeating the same reason over and over again. Besides, in case of violent partners, it would surely save you a lot of effort and trouble, which you may experience when you try the same face-to-face. Besides, if your partner does not really value you, it’s perfectly fine to send a very sarcastic break up SMS giving your sentiments exactly in one line!

In case you are racking your brains wondering how you would frame the right sentence to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend, you can take a look at some funny break up text messages compiled below. These downright mean and funny break-up SMSs are bound to irritate your annoying boyfriend/girlfriend and maybe he/she would think twice about getting into a relationship again!

Break Up SMS:
  • Have I told you lately how much I am in love with you? No? Think about it, have a great life...
  • I'd climb the highest mountain. I'd swim the ocean blue. I'd do anything at all my dear - just to get away from you.
  • I get so emotional when you are not around. I think the emotion is called happiness.
  • The only thing worse than being alone, is being with you.
Break-up SMSs may not really be the right way to go about any relationship, but in this tech savvy world, trends keep changing. Breaking up via SMS shows disrespect towards your partner and if you really have loved him/her truly at some point in your relationship, you need to respect his/her feelings and communicate personally. Part ways with mutual respect for each other rather than creating more animosity. It would help you to move ahead on a positive note and face life with a clear mind and heart!
   By Kashmira Lad
Published: 6/16/2008
 
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