Boyfriend Doesn't Pay Attention to Me Anymore - How to Transform Your Guy

Okay, you're probably thinking, "I don't have a problem gaining the attention of guys, other than your "boyfriend". These potential "more than friends" seem so much more interested in you and gladly listen to what interests you. Out of respect for your boyfriend, you won't give other men the opportunity to make any advances. Still, with every passing day, you think more and more, about how your relationship has changed.

Here are some tips for you get back the pleasure in your relationship.

For starters - how do you communicate both verbally, non-verbally? In the days of relationship boredom, a woman who loses her smile gives off a silent message or negative vibe about herself and her confidence. You might even infect those closest to you, creating joyless atmosphere.

The smallest act can start a pattern, a pattern can become a habit, a habit can become a character trait, a character trait can become a legacy.

Try this: whether you are saying goodbye (for the day) or saying Hi, when you're together again. Say it with a smile. At first, he might be a little skeptical. That's ok. The next time he may ask about your new comforting way. He likes it, even if he doesn't say as much. This can be great opportunity for you to say how you feel about him. Keep it brief and light. This not the time for a strong profession of you undying love.

Jennifer Anniston recently broke up with singer John Mayer because he didn't give her the attention she needed.

He reportedly is a heavy tweeter. The point is this: you are not alone in your predicament. Guys, to varying degrees just have trouble in the "connection" department, often need to be coaxed along and reminded of the female bonding that comes from basic communication.

You feel neglected, so you repeatedly call or text several times a day. When he does return your call/text, are you always asking the where, who, when, what questions? You might be trying to stick to him like a wet t-shirt. This is not a comfortable feeling.

Try this: take the focus off his flaws and focus on yours. Enroll an evening class once a week, to help your skill set at work or improve a hobby or talent you ignored for some time (this is a great way to empower and enrich your self worth). Don't tell him about it until after you have signed up. You don't need his approval or permission.

Have you stopped talking with your friends since to got serious with the boyfriend?

Give him some space. Create some intrigue. In all likeliness, the thrill of the chase is gone, sweetheart. You're his regular thing now and nothing has changed to keep your time together interesting. Don't go so far, as to unknowingly encourage him, to think you're trying to end it.

Try this: Go back to the first month or two in your relationship. Do you remember the small feeling of uncertainty, before you moved in together or starting leaving some personal affects at his place and vice versa? You likely didn't want call to often as to seem over anxious to see him, right? Or, you held back some deep personal feelings about you or your family, friends or the long future ahead.

I understand, some of this is already out of the bag, so to speak. However, if you add to the relationship by taking away some of the day-in, day-out routine, he will begin to notice you again. If he still loves you, you should be able to draw his feelings out, thus resulting in a more vibrant, way of life together.

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