Asking For Your First Date

You’ll be ready to ask for your very first date with your choice of women once flirting has begun to flow between the two of you. However, before you ask, you may want to have a plan to ensure there are no awkward situations.

Obviously, if you know what your woman’s interest are, then it’s easy to just target her interest and take her to see the latest play, movie etc of her interest. But, it is much harder if you have no idea what her interests are. If this is the case, then you must muster up your courage and ask her what are her interest and likes are when you next meet her.

One thing I do find strange is the amount of beautiful woman who have never been asked out in ages. Why? Because most men assume that because they are beautiful, they are likely to be already taken or there are perhaps already hundreds of dates that she has already lined up and don’t have time for average guys like yourself!

Nothing can be further than the truth! I have actually asked many of the beautiful women I’ve dated and received feedback that they have never been asked out for on a date in a very long time.

So its time that you do muster up your courage and go for it. You are in an advantageous position. These beautiful women will be very impressed with you the moment you approach them because they just aren’t used to men who have the courage to ask her out because of her attractiveness. So in fact, your chance of getting a date with her is very high compared to what you thought would be the case.

O.K, So now you have mustered up the courage to ask her out, what do you say when you approach her?

Most men will probably think that the best way to impress this beautiful woman they have just met is to be upfront and tell her that she is the most beautiful woman you have ever met. This is flattering but unlikely to impress her. Worst, she will think that you’re probably very shallow and not worth speaking to since you are likely to use this line on other woman also.

Rule number one is to not treat women like they are all about the looks and not the brains. Even blondes have brains, contrary to popular belief and saying. She will be vitally impressed if you showed that you treat her like an individual with high intellectual capacity. You will stand out.

If this is your first approach to this woman, you really should have an idea of what you would like to offer on your end. However, if you have already approached her and now know a little more about her interest, you can target on these like I said earlier. You now have the upper hand.

In the mean time, GOOD LUCK!

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