Asking a Guy Out

'It is the woman who chooses the man who will choose her', very aptly quoted by French author and playwright, Paul Geraldy, describing how a woman has the power to make a man she wants, like her. But gone are the days, of fluttering eyelashes and dropping hints. Hinting is no more a part of wooing a guy. Asking a guy out upfront is the best idea now, rather than playing games and leaving a guy exhausted, clueless and ultimately, giving up on you. So girls, lend me your ear as I reveal some creative ways to ask a guy out. A few dating tips and you are good to go!

Be Prepared
You really like him and can't help doodling his name every single time you have a pen in your hand. Here are a few ideas that will leave him doodling your name as well.

• The most important thing where girls go wrong is, going overboard with the makeup. If you are someone who usually does not wear a lot of make up, don't do it today, just because you want him to notice you! Wear a light makeup, may be use a glossier lipstick, and a dainty dress. This will hold his attention when you approach him.
• Make sure you know what his likes and dislikes are. That does not mean you have to stalk him! You sure must know of better ways than that, probably getting a male friend to ask him or just subtly asking people around.
• Be sure of where you want your first date to be, and make sure it's a place you both would like and enjoy being there in each others company.
• Get a few flirting tips, so that you don't babble when you face him. If you want to know more on what to say while asking a guy out, be sure you are aware of flirting tips for girls. Subtle flirting is one of the cute ways to ask a guy out.

Tips for Asking a Guy Out
Here is a little relationship advice for women. Do your homework and then move forward. Be sure you really want to date this guy, and it's not a crush that will die down soon. These are a few ideas for asking a guy out.

• Go up to him and start a conversation, keep flashing a smile while you do so, not very toothy, just a little.
• Maintaining good eye contact is of utmost importance. Don't let your nerves take over. The moment you start looking elsewhere, you sure have lost him as well.
• Physical contact, but a very subtle one will put you on the right track. Something like "Ooh! Someone's been working out", is way too dramatic and cheesy. Just a brush of your hand against his is good.
• Now that you have his attention, get down to business. Not literally, as if you are interrogating him, but in a better flirtatious way.
• If you share a common interest with him such as a sport, or music, then ask him if he would like to go with you for one of these events, but remember, just the two of you.
• If you chat about common interests a lot, then you could say something like,"Since we have so much to talk about, why not do it over a cup of coffee or even better, dinner." If his answer is in the affirmative, be sure the look on your face does not suggest otherwise. Be grateful and express it in a way such as, "I am looking forward to getting to know you better."

Even though asking a guy out is not traditional, subtlety is the key ladies, a charm indeed! All these tips and ideas can make dating fun.

What Does He Really Like?
You know what his likes and dislikes are. But do you know what kind of women he likes? Some guys like bold and confident girls, and if you think you are comfortable being that way, then go ahead and just ask him out in the boldest way you could. If your guy is floored by the idea of a cute girl, then think of cute ways to ask a guy out. This definitely does not suggest that you need to change for him. Do not try to be someone you are not. When you are not in your own skin, things begin to look artificial and it will definitely not last. Be original!

With these tips of how to ask a guy out, you must go ahead and ask him out. Shed those inhibitions, after all, it's just asking a guy out, not judgment day!