Always Say Less than Necessary

You can actually demean your personality by many words. It is often said that "in the presence of much word, sin abound". Though words are powerful and useful but it should never be taken for granted. Due to certain life circumstances, a lot of people in all walks of life have actually made a shame of their lives. Trying to impress with words is just like building castle in the air. Of course you know it won’t work.

God has so much fashioned us in a wonderful way. He gave us a pair of Ears but only one mouth. What does that mean to you? He wants us to listen more than talking more. Do not even try to clarify matters with mere words. People are tired of tired of hearing same words from same group of people. You might be an eloquent and oratorical motivator. To remain honored and highly esteemed, do away with much word most especially words that are out of the basket.

When you study the life of famous men who ever lived and are still living, you would discover how short their words are. This they do to intimidate the audience and congregation and make them find prospects easily. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Talkativeness makes you common and the more of that you become, the less you control.

Words have a dynamic power to change circumstances that are contrary to the rudiments of your destiny. In view of this, you must if at all you want to speak, talk positively but mildly. Talk out of a loving heart.

2 SIMPLE TIPS ON HOW TO SPEAK AND CONTROL PEOPLE

1) Speak out of a loving heart.
I mean you should speak as though everyone is your brother. Talk life into them. Give words of hope and success to the down caste. Never allow the problems of people to overwhelm you towards saying unpleasant word. You have the ability to turn lives around the world for good.

2) Be considerate in your words.
Do you consider how others may feel when you speak? If you don’t, controlling and inducing love from your friends or anyone could be hard. But you can achieve it by been considerate. Let others air their view about a subject and never disdain what they say. They may be reasonable at that time. Even a child knows that a loving parent would always give them chance to talk. Give other chance to talk. There is a sense in every iota of nonsense. Look inward at those words altered by someone else’ and take a chip from it. Maybe that is the solution to your pressing need.

Always remember that to dominate in this world of wickedness, you must be quick to learn and slow to speak. That is why you have two Ears and only one mouth. And the more you talk, the less you learn. Be careful.

See you at the top.
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By michael chibuzor
Published: 7/13/2009
 
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