Affair of The Heart

Butterflies, red little hearts, twinkling stars, Romeo and Juliet, an angel, red roses, a cute smile on pink lips, awaiting and bright eyes, and a heart full of some weird feelings...this is what comes to mind when we think of an affair of the heart. I think it can be described as pure, divine, and magical. Some call it a temporary madness and some call it a lifetime wisdom. When they are in love, some feel as if they are on top of the world and others feel like sacrificing everything they have. When their love rejects them they feel like dying and when their love accepts the proposal, they almost die with happiness. Some want to live for their love and others want to die. Love is like a paradox that no one can define. So many poets, writers, and artists have tried understanding and expressing the concept of love through various arts but yet love remains a mystery. I think it will always be a mystery. Everyone has their own love affair to talk about and each lover has a unique story and experience to share.

A Beautiful Affair

Tjis beautiful affair can strike anybody, at any age, and with many strange experiences. Any relationship that gives you joy, happiness and satisfaction can be termed as an affair of the heart. It can also be with a person you have never seen. People say that this type of love is a little different as compared to usual romance. It does not involve a sexual relationship and is beyond physical attraction. In such affairs the person feels inert love for someone, likes his company and is impressed by his thoughts and way of life. Sometimes a person may love someone without any reason. I told you, its weird...such relationships are similar to platonic love affairs where nothing but pure love binds two people together. From such relationships all you may want is the well-being and happiness of the person. It is said that the affair makes a person become a better human being, who believes in sacrifice, peace, honesty, and selfless love. All that person wants to do is keep his love happy forever. People in such relationships never ask for love in return and never force the other person to love them back. You must be thinking about where do you find such people? Well, but they look no different. They are just like you and me. However, a person with an affair can be recognized by observing subtle signs and habits.

Signs of a Person With An Affair of the Heart

They say when you are in love you can't sleep because reality is better than dreams. Some of the people may feel the same and it is difficult for them to fall asleep. You might find them awake in the night at weird hours and gazing at the stars or the ceiling. Such people also tend to feel very light, elevated, and happy. Some of them also feel very enthusiastic and excited. Many of them admit that their perspective to look at life has become more positive and hopeful. They are generally engaged in constructive activities and wish for the well-being of the society in general. The love and compassion makes them a sensitive and emotional person. They tend to understand the goodness of life and humanity better. A person who is in this affair, never lies and stands by what he believes in. The affair is based on simple gestures of love and on the grounds of sacrifice, commitment, trust and selflessness.

The affair is rightly explained by an anonymous person and I completely agree with it. It goes like this, "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."