A Long Term Relationship? No Way!

Remember when I shared the Bee and Honey Guide?
Men must always begin with an end in mind. What is it you want? It wasn’t just the initial attraction but the end result you seek. Men make the mistake of slacking off once they think they have already succeeded in creating the initial attraction. Don’t undo the hard work.

Now that you’ve figured out how to attract the women into your lives, you are bound to find one who is funny, interesting, affectionate, etc etc, even one you love maybe? What……Do I say love?.........Yes I did……..

Let me clarify that again. The one you want to spend the rest of your life together.

From real life practical experience and consciously observing so many have couples together, has led me to the conclusion that life is really all about relationships and nothing else.

One may want the money, and that’s well and great, but take out every human interaction and especially intimate human relationships and that person won’t be happy. How do I know, because of my personal experience as well as seeing many friends and family members that have also experience such circumstances. They have all told me that they would trade life long human and intimate relationships with the dough any day.

So what is that you really want? A one night fling, or many numerous flings out in town? What ever your choice, you have the choice and the power to decide from the start. It is certainly not my intention to sway you or influence you in any way shape or form. It is my true intention to however share from my experience and what I have observed in life through out my life.

I once met Anthony Robbins (the global guru on self- motivation and inspiration) once came up to me and asked me; What is the purpose of relationships, especially intimate relationships? I started rattling off a whole load of reasons and he narrowed it down to a simple sentence.

"To magnify your human experience, in happiness or in sorrow." And I thought about it, and I thought how true.

The next time you have a big win in your life, try going home and not telling a single soul of what had just happened in your life. See how you feel. Even better, try going to a basketball, football, or baseball game and imagine that when you’ve witnessed one of the teams just win the finals and no one cheers and everyone just goes home and doesn’t talk about it. What the?

When I thought about this, I thought how true. To magnify the human experience.
This is the same with intimate relationships. Why are we playing the dating game and wanting or even needing to be with someone. Because it ‘feels’ good to be wanted or needed, and it gives you a chance to magnify YOUR experience of life!

In the mean time, Good Luck!

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