3 Golden Tips to Get Your Ex Back

• Be willing to change.

Was there something particularly glaring about you that made your ex want to give you the boot? For example, were you a complete slob, did you expect to be waited on, or did you expect your beloved to always pick up the tab for dinner?

Be aware of your faults and not defensive about them. In addition, point them out to your ex. This makes you look like you're very much aware of what went wrong in the first place and how you are willing to change.

• Take it slow.

This isn't the time to try to speed back into the relationship as though you were going for the Indy 500. Remember, you want to salvage the relationship, and that might mean you've got to take it slow at first. Be aware that you're probably not going to be able to pick right up where you left off.

In fact, you might have to go back to simply dating each other again instead of slipping right back into the relationship as it was (if you were living together, for example). Remember that you want to show your ex that you've truly changed and are willing to go the distance to salvage the relationship. This means, follow his or her lead and don't push.

• Pay attention.

If your old way in the relationship was to tune out your ex while you watched the football game or chatted with a friend on the phone, don't do that. If you really, truly want to be committed to this relationship, and give your ex the attention he or she deserves.

It doesn't mean you've got to be glued to every word every second, but it does mean that you show your ex that he or she is important enough to you to pay attention when you're having a conversation. In addition, if a problem crops up, don't ignore it. Pay attention to it and take care of it right then and there.

To conclude if you really care about your ex then you will do what is best for both of you.

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